Ok so I'm 19 and I've been with my boyfriend for about 5 months, and I was a virgin up until a day ago.
Well, anyway I thought my boyfriend was a nice guy but he is a freaking physco, we had sex for the first time on saturday, and I told him to be careful, but, he wasn't ! And, then he asked if he could tie me up, I said ok, just because, and I ended up like that for about an hour even though I kept screaming at him to stop, it really freaked me out :(
Can I report him or something, this is so not cool, how could someone be so mean. He didn't even say sorry like he meant it, he just said "oh I didn't know you wanted me to stop" ?! Is he that stupid !!!
2007-05-07 02:51:22 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I know he is a creep :(
2007-05-07 02:58:17 · update #1
It wasn't fun at all it just hurt, I was crying and screaming at him the whole time I was tied up :( He is a pysco, I am going to break up with him.
2007-05-07 03:01:02 · update #2
He's is 24
2007-05-07 03:02:26 · update #3
I didn't have a problem having sex with him, but I was freaked out when he tied me up for an hour !
2007-05-07 03:03:48 · update #4
I don't know why he acted like that, he is usually really nice, he never yells at me or hits me ever ?
2007-05-07 03:05:18 · update #5
You told him to stop, and he didn't. By law that is rape. This guy has unnatural sex tendencies that can or will hurt someone.
And yes you can report him to the police, That would be the best thing to do. Otherwise he will just do it to some other poor unsuspecting woman. Never, Ever do something sexual that makes you feel uncomfortable,cheap or degraded! You are better then that, And it wasn't your fault for what he did.
Is he that stupid? Yes and selfish too..This was a bad experience for you, But a learning experience as well. Lesson learned: Not all people are as they appear to be on the surface. And some are wolves in sheep's clothing and nowhere near as nice as they pretend to be.
2007-05-07 03:11:54 · answer #1 · answered by master_escrimador 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need to file a report on this sicko before he ends up killing someone.Honey,when you say "no",even ONCE,that is considered Rape.You need to call the police and have him arrested.I am so sorry you had to go through such a terrible ordeal,it is an awful and sadistic thing.Please don't give this guy an leeway,what if he does it again? And it could get worse.Once an abuser,always an abuser.There are many networks out there available to help you deal with this situation.I will keep you in my thoughts and prayers.
2007-05-07 08:19:17 · answer #2 · answered by Artemis The Cunning 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
19 and 24?! Plz break up with him. No offense, but since ur gonna break up, HE IS A HUGE CREEP. And perv. Why did he tie u up?
Find a nicer bf, some 1 who will go slower if they have to!! Oh also, I'm pretty sure that it was a rape. If he did that this time, he might do something worse next time, so find some 1 else!
Good luck >_
2007-05-07 03:10:57 · answer #3 · answered by Cutie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You may be able to press a rape charge on the guy. However in reality it probably wouldn't hold up in court just because you agreed to be tied up and agreed to have sex and have 5 months of a romantic relationship together. I'm not an attorney however so it may be worth checking out.
At the very least you should absolutely break up with him. He betrayed your trust and showed no remorse. He is clearly a very selfish person.
2007-05-07 03:07:06 · answer #4 · answered by taotemu 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah you could report him. Nobody can tie you up and not let you lose when you demand it. I am not sure how they would look at the fact that you let him in the first place. But get away from this looney in any case. Tell him to stay away or you will file a complaint with the police for what he did.
2007-05-07 03:01:06 · answer #5 · answered by Moondog 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Best thing i can say is just talk to him about the way you felt about the way he handled it, and tell him that he took something you will never get back and he showed no remorse...
Dumb on your part to allow him to tie you up, obviously he is into some S&M and likes being dominate... it probably turned him on more that you were trying to resist and proceeded to yell at him
Anyways dump his sorry ***, sorry to hear your 1st time was horible... but very rare are guys like that in bed, i am sorry again but i think if he hurt you that much then stop the relationship...after talking to him and letting him understand first
2007-05-07 02:57:56 · answer #6 · answered by Nicole S 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
No it wasn't OK what he done to you!!!! if you said stop! it means he should of stopped. period!
He sounds insensitive and showed no thought for you, you should never feel pressured to try things like being "tied up" until you feel ready and you can trust that person.
I think you should get out of the relationship if you don't feel comfortable with him no longer!
xxx
2007-05-07 03:00:42 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Your Dad,l would be real careful with this guy, he sounds psycho ,let an adult you know in on what he did- to warn him off,and stay well away from him.Any more trouble,go to the police.lam so sorry you lost your innocence in such a violent way,please take care.
2007-05-07 03:00:33 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Um...that would be considered rape. I personally suggest not to take it to court...but if you have some guy friends who are totally willing to kick his monkey a**, tell them about what happened. Wow, what a horrible way to lose your virginity. This guy needs to be humiliated...wish I knew you so I could beat this guy down to the ground.
2007-05-07 03:01:19 · answer #9 · answered by gnomus12 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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