Im 23, married with 3 kids.
Whats the best way to leave my wife?
P.S. This is just theoreticly
2007-05-07 02:34:02 · 21 answers · asked by chris 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Rolled up in a carpet with concrete blocking the ends usually works!
2007-05-07 02:39:14 · answer #1 · answered by Michael F 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You are only 23 and you already have three children? That is a shame,. because you aren't just leaving your wife. You are also leaving three small children whom you brought into this world. That's the real damage you are thinking of doing. My best advice would be to get into marriage counseling and try to save the marriage for the sake of those children who need their mommy and daddy together. But, if that is impossible, then the next best thing is to take your wife somewhere privately (get a babysitter), and tell her that the marriage is not working out. You would like a divorce. Tell her you will pay child support and you will move so she can stay in the home. You will visit with your children regularly so she can have "time off" from them and build a new life for herself, too. The thing is, you don't want to be selfish. You will need to share the parenting until your youngest child is 18. That's the mature and wise thing to do.
2007-05-07 09:41:59 · answer #2 · answered by Wiser1 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This is not theoretically...People (especially men) don't ask such questions if they weren't planning something and YOU are very well planning something...
If you're really unhappy in your marriage, why don't you try communicating with your wife about what you are feeling. It will hurt more if you don't talk to her first... If that doesn't help try a marriage counselor. If that doesn't work, try a separation.
And if things are really bad off in your marriage, then you need to do what makes you happy. And if that means getting a divorce so be it...
But whatever you decide to do, please remember the children are the innocent ones and be mindful of their feelings.
Best of luck
2007-05-07 09:45:49 · answer #3 · answered by plumprump26 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's never a best way to dump someone. No matter how you do it, its going to hurt a lot especially after having 3 children together.
2007-05-07 09:41:28 · answer #4 · answered by Bluebell S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, at 23 with 3 kids, I'm assuming your wife is roughly the same age? Whatever you decide to do, you might want to duck. It's NOT gonna be pretty.
Sandy
2007-05-07 09:37:49 · answer #5 · answered by Sandy M 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
well i can tell u for sure there is no best way but why would u even want to do that to anyone that will just kill her leaving her alone with the kids why don't you just try taking the kids and telling her to leave maybe that will work
2007-05-07 09:50:52 · answer #6 · answered by shiva 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just say "Darling, your past you use by date, I want a younger model, goodbye" That should work. If not tell her you're in love with a 48 year old called Roger. That should put her into therapy!
2007-05-07 09:42:50 · answer #7 · answered by Geoffo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OMG,have you nothing better to do then "theoretically" leave your wife?
In theory,sunshine,see a marriage counsellor first,before you dump a woman and three kids.
2007-05-09 19:13:31 · answer #8 · answered by picklechick 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Theoretically my a**e lol, well its just be honest and open about it, straightforward. Surely there's no other way when its your wife who's had your kids its about respect. Well that's the way i dumped my old man lol.
2007-05-07 10:10:44 · answer #9 · answered by DeViL..^--^~~ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well get ready to have no money ever again because with 3 kids you will be paying alot of child support and possibly alimony. Maybe you should think about that more.....
2007-05-07 09:51:02 · answer #10 · answered by davinhowell 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋