we broke up after 8 months. he has alot of problems at home, and he's looking at his future too. he has no room for me in his head or his heart right now. he told me that. he apologised. he wanted me to know how he was feeling. but it was hard, because we were at that really emotional "make or break" stage where we either fully open up to eachother, or start pulling away. he was withdrawing.
he broke up with me at 6 months because he freaked, and thought it was the right thing to do. we got back together, and i needed reassurance and affection, but he couldn't give me as much as i needed because of how he was. i believe he loves me, and i believe it when he says i was the best thing to ever happen to him. and he's sorry it had to work out this way. i miss him so much. i wish i could hate him but i think he gave me the best he was capable of, which wasn't enough because of timing.
2007-05-07 00:59:45 · 10 answers · asked by Chasey Lane 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you know, i hear people saying if he really wanted me he'd be with me no matter what. but i think this is just who he is. things have been difficult between us because of circumstances and he doesn't have the emotional capacity to focus on them. i've seen him change. he's not the same person i went out with. his family and friends notice. i think he has alot of growing up to do, i don't think he'll sort himself out in a few weeks. but i'd like to stay friends.
2007-05-07 01:00:15 · update #1
Honey If you love him, let him go.....maybe he'll sort through his issues and find that he does love/need and want to be with you, if not your heart will recover, it may take a little bit but there will be someone else out there that IS ready and will give to you what you are so ready to give back!! that's what makes a great relationship!
Good Luck!
2007-05-07 01:07:20 · answer #1 · answered by Angelbaby7 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont think you are doomed if both of you are willing to stay friends then maybe he will clear his head and sort out the problems he got at home, if you were ment for eachother you will get back together. My boyfriend broke up with me 6 times never even explaining why, and everytime we will end up together . I did get tired of this so moved on and dated other guys while he had hes issues to work out, and you know what we ended up getting maried, we are maried now for 9 years with 2 kids and loving eachother every day. So hang in there dont sit and mope move on if you were ment to be together you will end up like us Good luck
2007-05-07 08:08:40 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to stay friends with him. At the very least u can get a very good caring relationship from him. And who knows? If u stick by him until he gets through this tough period or until he has changed hopefully he'll realise just how extremely jammy he is to have someone like u. But let him make the first move (romance-wise) in his own time. It seems like right now he just needs a good friend. Good luck.
2007-05-07 08:08:15 · answer #3 · answered by spark 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you two should stay friends, stay close always be there for each other. Let yourselves be open to other people and new experiences. It's going to be hard but you never know where life is going to lead you and who knows maybe down the road you two will meet up again in the heart and maybe that time it will work out better. After you both have grown.
2007-05-07 08:05:23 · answer #4 · answered by Subigan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Doomed.
2007-05-07 08:05:44 · answer #5 · answered by =42 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Doomed, yes.
2007-05-07 08:05:50 · answer #6 · answered by Euro Cop 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you are doomed.
2007-05-07 08:02:59 · answer #7 · answered by Anthony F 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sry, man your doomed... hope it workds out but i don't think it is, good luck ------>>>
2007-05-07 08:05:26 · answer #8 · answered by dancinstar 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can be friends, but it will not ever be anything else, sorry
2007-05-07 08:03:35 · answer #9 · answered by bronzebabekentucky 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you sound like a stalker
2007-05-07 08:04:37 · answer #10 · answered by joe k 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋