what is wrong with me?

Question

i am 14 my mom abandoned us and i havnt talked or seen her in nearly a year in a half i have had a really crappy life and im depressed all the time like im in san antonio having so much fun at schlitterbahn and all i can think about is it

Answer 1

everybody has a crappy with or without parent(s).
What makes you feel so special?

Just go do something you like to do, and be happy.

Answer 2

There is nothing "wrong" with you. You are experiencing the pain of losing your mom from abandonment. My mom left when I was five and I am now 34 and I have been in therapy for years and unfortunately because I did not get the help I needed at an earlier age it has affected me later on. Your feelings are natural. Wanting your mom is normal and especially at your age when you are experiencing so many things. I hope you can talk to you dad or a school counselor or someone you feel as though you can trust and hopefully get into some type of counseling or therapy so you can talk about the depression and all the feelings behind this now. You deserve to have a happy life and you can. I wish the best for you ~

Answer 3

ok, Mums are usually one of the only people in the world you can't truly depend on and trust, your mum broke that! is it any wonder you are sad and depressed! i just want too give you a hug!
this is going to take a while to get over and you may never know why she left! and it will be difficult! you need to find someone else you can trust and feel secure with an Aunt or grandmother or even a friends mum. You are only 14 and you have so much to deal with!
I do understand where you are coming from my sister inlaw recently abandoned her 3 children aged 10, 14 and 17. She came back but she can't understand why her children don't respect her and why it didn't scare them into behaving themselves! the thing is she wont acknowledge the damage she has done too her children!

so please feel free to email me i do check my email daily if not more! and i REALLY REALLY want too help you!

Answer 4

It is good that your depression can be ignored for the festival. Try to make life changes more slowly when it comes to love of a parent or a friend. Our minds don't like to erase a friend for abandonment. It leaves a chemical in the spinal fluid. Take heart and share your friendship more. Find a friend who is just like you to learn the secrets of life from. Yes life has secrets and some people are never told till it is too late.

Answer 5

You are expierencing depression and you are grieving. There is nothing wrong with this. Did you try to write to your Mom and even if you dont send it at least you might be able to feel a little better. Maybe one day when you get older she will come back and you can give it to her. Or what about writing to her in a journal that way you might be able to feel somewhat closer to her if and when the time comes you wont feel the need to write to her but thats in your time not anyone elses time. It may never come but it might.
Try to still live your life even when trumendously terrible things have happened to you.
Talk to whoever you feel comfortable talking to about this and ask them for thier suggestions on how to handle this.

Answer 6

You are depressed and you don't understand what your mother did, you need closure and you should talk to someone because if you don't, this is going to eat at you until you do something about it. I didn't want to talk to anyone when I was your age but if I could change time, I would have done it as early as possible. Good luck and remember that it is nothing that you did that made your mother leave, moms make mistakes too and it sounds like she made one that she will regret.

Answer 7

its completely understandable that all you can think about is your mom youre at schlitterbahn, its full of seemingly happy families. youre feelings are completely valid, im sure plenty of people feel the same way. obviously someone loves you very much to take you to schlitterbahn, talk to them about how you are feeling. talk to someone you trust about how you feel and maybe you can find away to deal with how you feel.

Answer 8

You are experience depression and feelings of abondoment.
I sure hope that there is an adult that you are living with.

Your mother must have some emotional issues to leave. It is not your fault. You don't have to let her problems destroy your life. Make plans for a good education and don't repeat your mother's past

Answer 9

when your mother leaves it is very traumatic especially at your young age. a book that you should read is called the motherless child. it talks about children and teenagers who lose touch with their mothers. you should also seek some therapy because this is hard on anyone. you are at a age where things are hard enough. talk to your dad, or at least i assume that you live with your dad, or some trusted adult and tell them how you are feeling and that you need to see a therapist that specializes in these things. i hope this helps and you are in my prayers

Answer 10

sweety there is nothing wrong with you at all.. just sometimes things happen in life that will make you depressed and sad.. thats life sweety.. its gonna keep happening.. you just gotta choose to dwel on it or use it....