I got his MySpace password, went in there to find that he was talking to other girls saying how he loves them. How he wants to kiss them.
Am I the one who is out of line for going into his MySpace? Or is wrong that hes doing this? Would you call this cheating?
2007-05-06 14:55:48 · 38 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well you violated trust on this one, so would you want him going threw your cell phone and reading your text messages and seeing who you talk to and such. You messed up a natural balance in finding out such information this way, but its also his fault at the same time for broadcasting this information via myspace. This little technicality makes it just so your fine get rid of his ***. Say goodbye.
2007-05-06 15:02:55 · answer #1 · answered by lee 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If you two are involved and committed to one another then it is him that is cheating. He shouldn't be telling anyone other then you, if you two are serious, that he loves them and wants to get with them. Does he talk about you on his myspace? Or do you even exsist on there. No, it may not be right to be checking up on him, but it is not right for him to be cheating either. Would he do the same to you? If he thought you were not being true to him? Don't let him turn the tables on you and it is all your fault, because it takes two.
2007-05-06 15:05:46 · answer #2 · answered by CaseyK 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Going into his myspace account is completely wrong. If you suspect that his is cheating then you don't trust him and you need to evaluate your relationship. Cheating. . . that can be debated. However, his motives are worth questioning. However, you have trampled on his privacy and how do you communicate that by not implicating yourself. This is not the first thing that he has done or you would not be going into his myspace account. If you can't trust him, then you need to exit the relationship. And, it sounds like you don't trust him.
2007-05-06 15:03:23 · answer #3 · answered by Dotch 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you were wrong for snooping. Relationships have to have trust. And yes, he is wrong - it's cheating. Maybe for now it's just "words" on Myspace, but that leads to a meeting (for lunch, coffee, whatever) and from there, the words become actions.
2007-05-06 15:02:48 · answer #4 · answered by sleepingawake653 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
That is something I did and I dearly love my wife and it is the thrill of just knowing you are talking to this unknown girl.
Men are crazy! Why do we do that I don't know. But she caught me and was real mad and she should have been.
I feel really bad I did that to her that was so stupid.
It just doesn't seem real on a computer. But we are real people just passing the time. She works hard and brings her work home and I get on the computer when she does it.
So please for give him he really doesn't mean to do it and it doesn't mean anything except he is bored.
That doesn't mean he doesn't love you. He isn't kissing her?
Just talking and not even hearing a voice. it is just words on a paper. You can say all kinds of wierd stuff. It is a game.
2007-05-06 15:06:07 · answer #5 · answered by Steven 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if u went thropugh his stuff on a daily basis then yes thats wrong but if u just went in that once b/c u had concerns then its not bad u gotta find out one way or another but yeah that would be defiantly cheating......no its nothing physical ....yet but y hurt urself and stay with someone who obvisouly isnt interested.....u dont deserve it and trust me...its better u found out and left instead of actually runnin into him physically cheatin on u....trust me that kinda heartbreak is so baddddddddddddd!!!!!!!!!!!!!
screw him u can find someone better!!!!!!!!
but next time u do get a guy only do that kinda stuff if u really have concerns a guy needs his space and his own stuff just liek girls do......so dont do the whole control thing
2007-05-06 15:03:39 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it was wrong to look. However, it is wrong for him to be talking that way to other girls. Obviously, something made you think he was doing what he did. Otherwise, would you have looked?
Yes, he is cheating. He should have more respect for you. Ask him about it, tell him how it makes you feel. If he won't stop get out now.
Don't listen to that jackass up above that said "you're not married so it's not cheating." He cheated, period!
2007-05-06 15:01:49 · answer #7 · answered by Rick 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he gave you the password then he is wrong even more because he would have known you could have seen but if you got it some other way then you are both wrong and yes that is cheating because he is lusting 4 another girl
2007-05-06 15:02:10 · answer #8 · answered by Lexi 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Yes, it's cheating. Yes, you were wrong.
Cheating does not have to be physical. It can be emotional. He's so cheating.
You were wrong to hack into his account, but I imagine you did it because your intuition told you something was up, and I probably would have done the same thing.
2007-05-06 15:07:43 · answer #9 · answered by KristenCO 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it is emotional cheating. The keyword is cheating, you were wrong sneaking into his stuff but at least your suspicions are right on the money.
The big question is what are you going to do now? Are you going to confront him knowing you stole his password or are you going to keep mum?
Now that is the downside of sneaking to catch him.
2007-05-06 15:01:31 · answer #10 · answered by Slim 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋