Question on homosexuality?

Question

Why is it that 2 people in a homosexual relationship, one is the male and other pretends to be a female?

Answer 1

No homosexual relationship I know of is like that. And I have a lot of homosexual friends in relationships. You might want to get out there and actually MEET some gays/lesbians.

Answer 2

One must wonder what Pat Robertson style assumptions you have about lesbians. Is one of them the female and the other pretending to be male? Strap-ons a must?

Gay people are just like straight people. They come in all shapes, sizes, and with all sorts of ideas of what makes sexual relationships work. Stereotypes have severely limited practical usage and the ones you're apparently harboring were never true, they just appeared that way because the only publicly gay population since mass media began were the ones that were too much like the other gender to pass as straight. Why would that be? Because gay people are persecuted.

Times, they are a-changing, and for the better, but not quickly enough.

Answer 3

As the resident homosexual here on R&S, I don't know what you are talking about. I don't know any GLB who have this type of relationship. I would call that a transgender relationship. Personally, I'm not attracted to effeminate men. If I wanted to go out with a woman, I'd date one. I don't want a man who acts like a woman and I do not want to be a woman or even pretend to be one. While their are men who are effeminate, I'm not aware of any that pretend to be a woman in their relationships. I would imagine that kind of relationship is rare.

Answer 4

Of course, you don't mean all homosexual relationships. But I've also noticed that when the female in a heterosexual relationship is masculine, the male tends to be feminine.

Answer 5

I think maybe you mean one is more dominant than the other. Marriage is the act of bringing two people together who complete each other. Kind of like opposites attract. I think this goes whether homosexual, heterosexual or otherwise. We are all looking for a soulmate, we just have to choose what lifestyle we want to live in.

Answer 6

No, I don't think its a myth.

I work with people like that. One guy who I think must be the "feminine" one, acts very girlie and has all the mannerisms. But we like him.

Another childhood friend I knew was like one of the girls, only at that time we didn't know much about homosexuality and just thought he was a sissy. But we liked him too. He was even going to become a priest.

So I have come in contact with lots of homosexual and guess what? I don't preach fire and damnation either. But if the subject came up, I would tell them what I know, biblically-speaking.

Answer 7

This is how you think homosexuality works? You do need a reality check. My very best friend, my closest friend is gay. He is not in the least "girly". In fact, when we were living together he was very handy to have around. He knows how to fix just about anything. And in all the many years that I have known him, his partners, when he has had one, are very similar to him. Smart, competent, and sometimes very hard to tell that they are gay.
Not everyone acts the way they are portrayed on TV.

Answer 8

You been watching too much TV. Homosexuals are just like everyone else and television portrays most of them to have a sense of fasion and talk with lisps and have that hand pop thing down, but I know someone who is gay, no sense of style, but his own, and he doesn't talk with a lisp. So, your whole question is completely stereotypical and nothing more.

Answer 9

I have observed the same phenomenon in many of the gay couples that i have encountered...I guess it is similar to "playing house"....like when we were kids....it basically is simulating a heterosexual relationship....

I have a gay aquaintence,I should ask him about this...

Answer 10

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