am i too young to be thinking about romance and true love and sex and the one and all that stuff? im 15 and i have had a bf before but i ended it cuz there was too much heartbreak....
well lately i have been getting played and hurt and used and confused and really sad cuz of guys....and i dont know what i want! i change my mind so quickly! i had my whole heart set on one perfect guy and now i have been thinking about another guy....why am i always so confused and hurt and why dont i ever know what im feeling for real?!?
i am so confused how/why do i change my mind so quickly?!? am i just an immature 15 year old who has NO IDEA what true love is? please, give some advice. i need it desperately!!!!!! im hurt, im sad, im confused, i swear im frikkin bipolar! i just dont understand anymore! is this normal?
why wont he call? why wont he email? why is he playing with my heart? why am i crying as i type this?
why do the guys ALWAYS play me?
why am I always the one to get hurt?
why?
2007-05-06 14:27:43 · 8 answers · asked by ? 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Every girl wants to be loved by someone special - it's not uncommon for you to be thinking about things like that. But you are too young to have sex with someone!
You aren't ready for a commitment with someone if you just were obsessed with someone and now are starting to like someone else. Give it time. Let your relationship grow before you do anything you will later regret.
Does he know that you like him?
Is this Marco? ;o)
Girls are much more sensitive than guys and they don't realize that little things can make us feel bad.
Luckily for me, my guy has never hurt me and he loves me to death and I love him dearly too.
I think you should wait for the right guy to come along. When you meet "the one" you will know and it will be worth the wait!!
Good luck.
Hope this helps.
2007-05-07 12:48:58 · answer #1 · answered by *Casey * 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whoa, slam on the breaks sister. No wonder your confused speaking about true love and stuff at age 15. First lose your preconceptions about perfect and true love. That only happens in the movies (in real life you need to work at it, and sometimes in verry rare occasions when 2 people are very accomidating to each others needs yes).
Second of all, i dont know what true love is, and im 24.
Third your taking this waaayy too seriously. I say 15 is too young but its really mental age, i have neigbours that have 2 kids and she is 18 (met the guy at 15).
There really is alot of advice you need, and i am unsure if i would be able to give it to you all in this one answer. But the one thing you need to do is stop taking love so seriously for starters, take off those presumptions about it and stuff and realise your young. Learn from your mistakes and dont let them get you down.
If you can see a friend of the family, or a older cousin or perhaps an older friend about it. Provided you can trust them they can give you lots of help.
2007-05-06 21:43:17 · answer #2 · answered by ChAtMaN 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Guys at your age are less mature than girls. That is a proven fact. They "play" you because they themselves don't know how to react when faced with a situation such as dating. (Most guys are like this, however there are afew that are more matur and can handle it, but rare.) You're fine. To answer your question you are young to be thinking this way. Give it a couple of years.
2007-05-06 21:37:48 · answer #3 · answered by bookworm019 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Part of this is just being 15. You are still learning. Calm down, things will improve. Observe girls who you think get a good reaction from guys and try to learn from them. Wishing good things for you in your future.
2007-05-06 21:38:11 · answer #4 · answered by gogogirl 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Try waiting till your a couple of years older. It'll be worth the wait, you'll be more mature.You don't need all that at 15.
2007-05-06 21:38:28 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, you're too young to concentrate on those things. you should worry more about school, having fun with your friends, and things like that. you have your whole life ahead of you.....experience it.
2007-05-06 21:40:05 · answer #6 · answered by Brian D 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you are to young for sex
2007-05-06 22:30:54 · answer #7 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
naaaah you straight
2007-05-06 21:31:43 · answer #8 · answered by Gangsta 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋