I meet a new guy and we talk on the phone everyday. Most of the time i tell him i call him later and i do. But when he says hes going to call me later he doesn't call me till the next day. Should i call him or wait for him to call me back even if he doesn't call till the next day?
2007-05-06 13:27:52 · 25 answers · asked by Julia M 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
just wait because you dont want to seem anxious so wait for him to call if he said later then it meant later. but if you really like him call him once only once and if he doesnt answer then just wait. give it some time. things happen when there supposed to happen. having my fingers crossed for you!! ;)
2007-05-06 13:38:12 · answer #1 · answered by **jUiCy** 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Julia,
We are on different time tracks, men and women. When we say "later" and when you say "later", can be quite a difference in time. Especially, in the early stages of a relationship. As the relationship progresses in a positive way, you will start to sync up your time understanding through natural paths of communication, this won't be a problem anymore.
Don't play games, let it all work itself out. Be patient. If this guy doesn't work out, other ways will manifest to tell you that very soon...
Of course, what the hell do I know...I'm a single guy!
2007-05-06 13:40:10 · answer #2 · answered by Bendog2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't call him............ He should be the one calling you. If he says he is going to call and doesn't then that should be telling you RED FLAG!!!!!!!!!!
If a guy is interested he will keep the communication going. Wait, if he doesn't call you back until the next day then maybe you should not answer the phone and see how it makes him feel........
2007-05-06 13:36:01 · answer #3 · answered by asking away 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
look. this is all the start of a new 'thing.' dont make it bigger than it is.
dont call him unless he doesnt call you back for a couple days otherwise you'll come off as desperate. i suggest whenever you tell him you'll call him, dont...and wait till the next day.
if he brings it up later, just say you got busy and then you'll see that he will change and start giving you more attention since he might start thinking you arent as hung up on him as he though and will try harder to get you closer to him.
guys like a competition. they like hard to get girls. they like it when its hard to get your complete attention and everything else.
you'll realize that once it becomes easy for him to get a hold of you and get together here and there and your always there for him at his beck and call, he will get bored fast and move on.
2007-05-06 13:36:41 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Once a day is enough. If you have already talked with him don't call him. If he has not called you then call him, but if you are making all the calls only call him twice a week and line up another date.
2007-05-06 13:34:52 · answer #5 · answered by Noah T. Hall 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok, i dont comprehend in the adventure that your used to the relationship equipment or no longer yet first, relax. He likely in basic terms needs to chil 4 a sec. call him in about 15 minutes to 20 if ur stressing about the prob. And if u favor to keep the relationship going, do not call each and every 5 seconds. believe me, in basic terms have a interesting relationship with none fights, or a minimum of attempt to. sturdy success!!! See yah! LoL.
2016-12-05 11:16:23 · answer #6 · answered by wisorserratore 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The goal here is to keep so busy that you don't notice that he didn't even call you back.
DO NOT sweat a guy. If he ain't delivering on his word, then keep it moving and work on YOUR goals until he steps up to the plate.
Know this, if he never calls, then he wasn't really serious in the first place.
It is as simple as that.
2007-05-06 13:34:24 · answer #7 · answered by DaMan 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO! It makes you look desperate. If they want to continue the relationship they will call. Give them a taste of their own medicine too by saying you will call and not.
2007-05-06 13:33:26 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't understand why everyone thinks relationsips and crushes and love are so trivial. Of course it would be okay for you to call him, if he can't talk then that's okay, I doubt he's going to be mad at you or anything. Hun you really don't need to stress yourself out about little things like that.
2007-05-06 13:36:08 · answer #9 · answered by IndiHippi 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This case don't call him. Some girls who never call guys should, But you called him couple times so don't do it. It's not cool.
2007-05-06 13:30:49 · answer #10 · answered by denny m 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋