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I think I have an eating disorder. I feel immsense guilt if I eat anything bad and then throw it up. Or if I dont do that I eat very little and exercise religously...

I am afraid to tell my husband, and I dont know what to do....

2007-05-06 13:05:19 · 28 answers · asked by Jersey Girl 86 2 in Health Diseases & Conditions Other - Diseases

28 answers

Well my husband knows about mine, so unless you want help I wouldn't tell him. He will follow you around the house, always checking the toilet, making you go out to eat so you can't throw it up, and so forth. So if you are serious, you need to figure out whether you want help or not, then go from there. If you do, you better make sure you absolutely want to stop, I've been hospitalized for it. I don't want too, so there is no helping me right now.

2007-05-06 13:11:52 · answer #1 · answered by dior.junkie 5 · 0 0

Hmm...i'm sorry this is happening to you.

you're probably having eating problems cause you might be stressed over something, like with work/friends/etc. and it effects you're eating.

you may wanna talk this out with family, or a counselor cause this can get worse and you could end up in the hospital, and I'm sure your husband wouldn't like that now would he?

I think you SHOULD talk about this with your husband. I'm sure you both will feel better if you open up about this. The sonner you talk this out, the sooner you can get the help you need, and the sooner you can recover. Don't be afraid to tell him, he loves you and i'm sure he'll understand that you need guidance, just tell him that you feel that you have a eating disorder and may need help.

Best of Luck!

~ Veronica

2007-05-06 13:27:03 · answer #2 · answered by Veronica Barrera 3 · 0 0

this is very serious and you need help now, because from the sounds of it you have been like this for awhile now so you should tell your husband right now and then get to the doctor/hospital right away so you can be saved and have a life with your husband,like my mother told me she is going to eat whatever she wants because she said it will be soon enough you wont be able to eat any more.

GUILT about eating, frig that you are missing out on alot of real tasty foods.I eat whatever i want whenever i want and i do not feel one bit guilty and my husband is 260 pounds and he still eats like a pig and although he is overweight right now, he is still alive and if you keep doing what you are doing then you wont be, i knew someone who had the same problem as yours and she is no longer around.
there are people who love you and care for you so much and you need to tell them now.

AFRAID to tell your husband, why?
you married him for better or for worse etc etc
why are you afraid to tell him, it will be alot easier for him to hear this from you then to find you some day on the floor dead.
tell him now, he should understand.

take care and keep me updated on what is happening to you please, my e mail address is available on this too if you need me to talk to, I think there is more to this story because why would you be afraid to tell your husband.

Maureen

2007-05-06 13:24:29 · answer #3 · answered by maureen s 2 · 0 0

My cousin has an eating disorder and has been seeing a counsellor and a dietician for about a year now and she has been getting much better because of it, there are plenty of support groups and doctors that specialize in this field, and if your husband really loves you then he will understand and want for you to get help. Good Luck.

2007-05-06 13:17:09 · answer #4 · answered by ? 6 · 0 0

im not a med professional but i would suggest that 1 u talk to ur husband and 2 that u talk to ur doctor. it sounds that u have a eatting disorder called bulemia sorry i cant spell that word but it is a serious condition it took me 2 months to beat it after having it for only 1 month the longer u wait the harder it is not to mention that u also are hurting ur body when u do that bc ur body really doesnt have the time to absorb the nutrients that ur body really needs talk to ur hubby i have a feeling u will be suprised how supporting he will be

2007-05-06 13:11:59 · answer #5 · answered by Orkid 2 · 0 0

I think thats called Bulimia. And it is a disorder.

My opinion would be to tell your husband and ask for his help. Thats what he's there for. He loves you and would probably feel hurt if you didn't tell him.

Go see a doctor. Just get some help to start eating correctly again. You are beautiful no matter what, just remember that. Stay healthy, and be happy.

2007-05-06 13:11:23 · answer #6 · answered by xsupergirl245x 2 · 0 0

eat healthy AND stay in shape do not go on a diet if u do with what is going on right now u can be reallyun healthy soooo....
eat healthy exercise 30min. a day and talk to someone about this it does not have to be me it can be somone who cares about u and i think the two people that can really help you is your doctor or your husband. if that is hard then come to me or anyone else who may help u on yahoo answers.

2007-05-06 13:15:54 · answer #7 · answered by money lover 2 · 0 0

nicely this is no longer anorexia perchance a touch disordered eating. this is no longer healthful. it really is how I were at the moment. I lost 30 some kilos on condition that August. i ought to face to lose it even with the reality that besides the indisputable fact that this is no longer the right way.

2016-12-05 11:13:25 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 0 0

I would tell a very close friend. Eat healthy food that is great. Don't throw up. fight the urge to throw up. Your body gets use to it, then it almost seems like it wants to throw up. I was bulimic for two years, I had to get through it on my own. It was hard. So yes tell someone close.

2007-05-06 13:14:27 · answer #9 · answered by bongobeat25 5 · 0 0

Yea I am kinda like that you are bulimic if you do that everytime. It sounds like there is more to it...think why are you doing this? Eating disorders are a mental illness not eating isn't the disease it is a symptom. Talk to your husband about it.

2007-05-06 13:11:41 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

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