The guy i have been dating for about 2 months I dont trust he tells me things but i cat believe him so i made up a fake myspace and im now talking to him to find out if he tells me the truth i am faking to be some hot chick and im not. my b/f says that me/ my self is hot but i dont think so and he has lied to me about alot of things and I want to know if he is a cheater. So is it wrong making up a name and person to find that out?
2007-05-06 12:50:35 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well I did do it and I did find that he was a cheeter and that everything that I suspected was true he told her things about me and him like me and him were only friends and that he was gonna break up with me so tonight on the bus i will do it first wish me lick
2007-05-08 07:18:58 · update #1
Absolutely not. Of course it was be nice to have a mature, straight-forward conversation with him, but let's face facts, if he did do something bad, he's not going to say it. Besides, it's only been 2 months, you don't know him well enough to give him that kind of trust and by the sound of your question, he hasn't earned it yet. Go ahead and continue with the fake myspace. It can save you some trouble. Good luck and I really hope everything turns out okay.
2007-05-06 12:55:58 · answer #1 · answered by Miami_Tennis 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that you should learn to trust him. Certainly spying on him is not right, and I don't think making a fake myspace is the answer either. In the beginning of mine and my girlfriends relationship, I didn't trust her too much either, but I let it go, and we became closer, and now I trust her fully. You just need to leave it be, and eventually, you will learn that he is a good guy. However, IF that doesn't work, trust is probably one of the most important parts of a relationship, so you have to make sure you trust him. If you are certain that you don't, you should break up. Good luck! I hope you work things out. OH YEAH! And another thing, maybe you should tell him that you are feeling skeptical about the trust in the relationship, and you want to know the truth, and you can take it. You shouldn't be afraid to tell everything on your mind with your partner. Good luck!
2007-05-06 20:02:50 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes and no well if you dont trust him that is a way to know for sure if he is lying but if he is telling you the truth and he finds out what you have done you might regret doing that in the first place.
2007-05-06 19:55:14 · answer #3 · answered by Deadman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
personally...I know you were asking for a guys opinion, but still. I think that you two are going to have trust issues down the road. You should believe him, he's your boyfriend. How would you feel if he did something similar to you? Talk with him, and be honest. Express to him how you are feeling, and believe what he tells you as a response in how he feels about you
Trust is crazy important in relationships. Try it, and you guys will be fine.
2007-05-06 19:56:46 · answer #4 · answered by Hannah 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you have no trust in him and it has been only two months what kind of trust will you have in two years why do you not think highly of yourself look in the mirror take a good look .....what do you see if you cannot find the beauty that lies within or outside of you you need to spend more time with you and not with someone that you do not trust after only two months it is way to soon to be having trust issues good luck
2007-05-06 20:01:01 · answer #5 · answered by teddybear 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, that is kind of going overboard. I think you should just calm down and trust him...But hey if you already started this fake account then you might as well follow through will the whole idea.
2007-05-06 19:54:39 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you dont trust him the relationship is in trouble anyway --- there is no need to go to these lengths --- if you trust him then you dont need to and if you dont trust him you already know or strongly suspect he is cheating --- do what your heart tells you -- its usually correct --- best wishes
2007-05-06 19:58:37 · answer #7 · answered by trader1867 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Naah. I like you style. I'm down with your method. You are acting in a correct manner. Brilliant technique.
2007-05-06 19:55:24 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No way, go for it.
its essential and your right to know if hes a potential cheater.
2007-05-06 19:54:54 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you don't trust him now he probably isn't worth trusting. Always follow your gut
2007-05-06 19:53:45 · answer #10 · answered by morseap 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋