i want to know how do i deal with the fact that he wont tell me whether or not he wants to be with me he wont tell me anything what should i do should i wait till he comes home or what
2007-05-06 12:03:41 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You got a lot of courage and heart to love a guy overseas. I know its not easy. Its hard for him right now to figure anything out trust me he has alot of other crap on his mind. I did. Its not that he doesnt love you but over there.....your life is chaotic. If it gets that hard on you try at the very least be his friend but be honest and straight up with him. Just dont do what my girl did to me...I came home from Iraq and found out I was just a little game. If you cant do it anymore let him down softly. For his sake.
2007-05-06 12:18:55 · answer #1 · answered by Patrick 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say that if you want this guy in your life, you should keep things casual for now. Being overseas in the military, he doesn't need the pressure of whether or not he wants to be with you. Right now he's trying to focus on his job. But chatting with you from time to time is probably a pleasant distraction. Look at him as a friend for the time being. If you find someone else you want to be with, then don't let the military guy stop you. There are no ties at the moment. Just make sure you keep thing light and positive with the military guy.
2007-05-06 19:15:50 · answer #2 · answered by Erin 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋