Okay, theres this guy I like. I thought he felt the same. We would talk all night on Aim. He would call me on the phone constantly, and we would share things with each other we didn't tell other people. He knew I liked him too. He flirted with me constantly, and suggested (it seemed) things between us. But I still had the notion that he didn't like me in that way, and I guess I was right...
i dont think i'm ugly
[friendid=28713106]( if you wanna confirm that )
and he told me he liked my personality...
so i dont get it...
2007-05-06 11:42:09 · 16 answers · asked by Me 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
just out of curiousity, why are you pretending to like me when you dont?
brb one sec sorry
its not a thing a bout pretending to like u or not its just taht i havent been single in a year and half and even flirting a little is like the weirdest thing i just havent done it in so long so it is weird sorry
ehh its okay. i just font like being led on
sorry that is not the intention it just weird being able to say what i want and not have to worry about it and i guessed i asked to many question or i donno sorry
nahh i was just making sure you didnt like me. thats all
i dont really like anyone im just happy to finally not be tied down for a lil ya no
yeahh
1:10 AM
okay your turn
are u sure u still want to play cause i dont want to do anything wrong
no. i've been over you for while. i know you dont like me. so nothing changes
eh im out of questions and i feel like a dick
lol its okay
i can deal with rejection.
your still one of my best friends
sorry to kill the game
thanks same '
2007-05-06 11:43:51 · update #1
^ thats the conversation about it when i asked him. i lied about being over him so he didn't feel bad.
2007-05-06 11:45:01 · update #2
oh yeah, last week he asked out another girl and got turned down. so its not that he's afraid of commitment. he asked her out while he knew i liked him too...
2007-05-06 11:47:44 · update #3
gosh, i keep adding detail
well today we're talking like nothing happened.
even though his flirting has gotten worse.
like to the point where it almost seems like sexual harassment, which is weird, because he's a really nice guy as far as i knew. and ive know him for a longggg time.
2007-05-06 11:50:05 · update #4
OKAY. Look. I've told him I liked him a while ago. Actually, he asked me because he had just broken up with his girlfriend of two years, and he had heard rumors i did. But I didn't flirt with him because I was afraid he was still hurt.
2007-05-06 11:52:11 · update #5
Run, do not walk, and PUT OUT FOR THIS MAN. He's the one for you, and you can't let him get away.
2007-05-06 11:50:50 · answer #1 · answered by Margy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's very easy to flirt online and over the phone with someone you have absolutely no interest in. i do it all the time. i'm sure it's not because of your looks or anything that you've done. but, when he says, "i don't really like anyone right now." what he means is, "i'm just not that into you." try not to dwell on it, and do your best to get over him. and, no matter what he says, do not get your hopes up thinking that he's changed his mind about you unless he actually pursues you in person.
2007-05-06 19:37:07 · answer #2 · answered by hunting wabbit 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know exactly how u feel girl trust me! its a very confusing situation, maybe he does like u but just dosent want to comprimice the friend ship...but honestly maybe u should try to forget him and move on, i know its easer said then done but theres no point waiting for him to make up his mind bout how he feels.....maybe if he realizes he lost the oopertunity to be wit u he will finally be real about how he feels
2007-05-06 18:50:49 · answer #3 · answered by shawty67 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think he is just confuse because maybe he haven't been in a relationship for a long time and it would seem weird.
2007-05-06 18:55:11 · answer #4 · answered by sassygirl_bonnie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he has alot of these AIM friends he is just flirting with. He is practicing his flirting skills online so incase he does find the one he like, he won't mess it up. Its probably not you.
2007-05-06 18:49:16 · answer #5 · answered by xxthink2muchxx 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
some men just like somebody to talk to on the phone and don't want a face to face relationship..it happens..i had a lady i would talk hours to on the phone and when i met her in person i could not talk to her..sometimes thats just the way things are...
2007-05-06 18:46:55 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
ya dont tell him your over him if you arent...just tell him that you still really like him and you just need a straight answer whether you guys can ever be more than friends...and just let him know that you still wanna be friends no matter what he decides...but whatever you do dont lie to him..
2007-05-06 18:52:28 · answer #7 · answered by molly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe he is just scared to get in to another serious relationship
keep bein his frend cause he might come around
he suks for leadin u on like that but forgive him cause he is ur frend
2007-05-06 18:46:15 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey well he might just be shy. Maybe you should try making a move.
2007-05-06 18:50:04 · answer #9 · answered by cornbreadman2424 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i agree wit sam, be straight wit him, ask him if he likes u or not n if he say yes, ask him out. not every1 get wen u flirtin.
2007-05-06 18:48:57 · answer #10 · answered by Babygurl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋