ok i am currently in an abusive realationship with, my man tells me all the time that im worthless and calls me everyname u can possible thing of, he is constinly hitting me and punching me and doing a number of horrible things to me, but i love him despite that and i know i deserve better but i cant seem to walk away from him! he puts me through pure hell most of the time, but there r those really good times and i just can picture my life without him so wat do i do????
2007-05-06 11:18:31 · 6 answers · asked by shawty67 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The negatives you mentioned exceed the positives by far.
This is an abusive relationship where you are not a person who contributes to it, but someone to express anger at. If you want to be the boxing bag for your whole life, knock yourself out, but if you really care about yourself and have the the smallest bit of dignity and self respect, cut the man loose. He isn't worth you or your time, unless you want to be with him.
Nothing, absolutely nothing compensates for a second of sadness you spend with this hateful man.
Leave him and have a good life with someone else.
2007-05-06 11:27:24 · answer #1 · answered by peachy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It doesn't matter if you love him or not, you can't stay with a guy who punches you and yells at you. One of these days he may go too far. You need to tell the police and get away from him. Believe me, you'll find someone who treats you better, holds you, tells you how great you are instead of how worthless you are, and you'll have more good times than bad. Trust me, you'll be so much better off and happier. Please get yourself some help, no one wants something really horrible to happen to you.
2007-05-06 18:30:09 · answer #2 · answered by IndiHippi 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love is blind. You dont deserve abuse! You have got to be strong and know that you want more and a better life for yourself if what u say is true either he dont really love you or he needs therapy. Honey no one can help u if u cant help yourself. Hold your head up and be strong. There are a million more fish in the sea. So go fishing.
2007-05-06 18:26:13 · answer #3 · answered by angee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What you can do is strictly up to you. What you are saying is typical of women in abusive relationships. The only thing you can do is NOT WANT to be abused and the solution to that is to leave and never look back, never let that person cross your mind, and get on with your life. I do lhope there are no children involved in this relationship.
2007-05-06 18:28:19 · answer #4 · answered by Kandie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seek some professional help. This is a sad but serious issue that occurs between relationships of all ages. No girl deserves this, get help please or this could end tragically.
2007-05-06 20:18:17 · answer #5 · answered by cdani425 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You would leave him.No woman should be treated like that.If I were I would treat you like a princess buy you stuff.talk to you when your down.Call the cops on him so he would not do this to any other women.
2007-05-06 18:26:58 · answer #6 · answered by Basketball4ever 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋