we both have a mutual attraction for eachother,the only problem was my x is his friend and would not allow it to happen. A year has gone by and we still have that mutual attraction, now the problem is he has started seeing someone else, although it is obvious to everyone that he does not seem to care for her too much, and i still want him, should i sit back and wait to see what happens? or make a move?he knows how i feel and he is still with her.
2007-05-06 08:25:21 · 6 answers · asked by kelly k 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You need a reality check girl. This guy isn't that interested in you. If he was interested in you, he would have asked you out by now. I think that after at least 3 months of having been broke up with the ex-boyfriend that the ex-boyfriend would not have minded his friend dating you. I assume that your ex-boyfriend went on with his dating life shortly after the two of you broke up. Why would he expect you to do differently? Why is it that you couldn't open up your mouth and ask this guy out before now? After all, you have liked him for a year. Maybe you are one of those women that like it better when you take someone else's man. He knows how you feel. He is still with her. Maybe you should take the subtle hint here. It isn't right to interfere in someone elses relationship. Only sluts do that. Just wait things out. If things are meant to be for him and his girlfriend, then they will be. If he is meant to be with you, then I believe that destiny will intervene somehow and it will happen. Just stay out of their relationship and let them be. Remember, what goes around comes around. If he will dump this girl to be with you, he will dump you later on down the line. And if you really cared about this guy, you would want to see him happy. And you would be a lady and not interfere in his personal life. For now, go on with your life. Find yourself another man to drool over.
2007-05-06 08:40:40 · answer #1 · answered by cmg1977 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
making a move does not seem appropriate at this time.
when u and ur ex split, u and his friend could have made moves then, but neither of u budged.
now he has someone else. and please dont judge his happiness or unhappiness with her by what u or others see. u know the old saying...
besides, i would be a little leary of dating an ex's anybody. who knows what ur ex may have told him about u.
if the mutual attraction is still there after a while, and u both are available to each other, go for it. until then dont sit back and wait for anything...
2007-05-06 15:39:48 · answer #2 · answered by miss lisa 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
omg i'm going through basically the same thing. except i've been on and off with this guy for about 2 years now.
so about the answer...hmm. the best thing to do is look at what would happen if you got together with him and what would happen if you didn't. see the positives andt he negatives. then see which ones are priorites and have bigger effects and that should determine what you should do. if he doesn't really care for her, he's quickly wasting time that he could be with someone else that i'm sure he'd care for more. you! so do what i said and i hope it works.
2007-05-06 15:31:30 · answer #3 · answered by keeyla 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
My mom always said put **** in one and want in the other then she which one fills up first. If he is with someone leave him alone.
2007-05-06 15:30:22 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
i would sit back and see what happens who knows Ya'll might get together after all .
2007-05-06 15:34:45 · answer #5 · answered by Sarah L 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Your first sentence said it all.
2007-05-06 15:29:31 · answer #6 · answered by TJ 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋