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I have been dating this guy for sometime not very long. Last night as you all know the fight was on, and he invited me to come and watch it with him and his famliy. The crazy thing is I met his daughter for the first time. She is in 4th grade, i wanted to know does this mean anything that im chilling with the family and meeting the daughter. I have met his family before not all of them but a good portion. We are not in a relationship just dating at this point. My question is do you think his easing me into his life slowly, does he want to maybe get into a relationship with me ? And do men bring random chicks their dating around their children what do you guys think i need help.......

2007-05-06 07:45:36 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

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Most guys simply don't have the choice. So if he brings you around his family and kids it does not say anything.

2007-05-06 08:23:49 · answer #1 · answered by null_the_living_darkness 7 · 0 0

young little ones communicate. He ought to utilising you to come back at his ex. If the toddler sees you and mom asks what they did, he needs the ex to "experience" some thing different than indifference in direction of him. he's to no longer stunning if he has a 4th grader and is not any longer in a real dating together with her mom. So if I have been you, i could step gently and not take something heavily. He may be searching for somebody to mom his toddler for him or some thing no longer everlasting, like "friends with advantages", "play living house", and so on, and needs each and every person to be pleased with it, tremendously if his friends and family contributors attempt to push him to bypass out and meet somebody, and so on. do no longer take it to heart, he ought to be attempting to thrill family contributors that he's shifting on, or he's utilising the toddler and family contributors to start a love/hate with ex, or he's seeking to apply you for some thing else. If this grew to become into the 1st time you're getting to know on the subject of the toddler, then there is a few thing no longer precise with that. He ought to have stated his ex and toddler, then asked the form you felt approximately assembly his family contributors and toddler. this might have allowed you to say no if it could make it too quickly, too uncomfortable, or a deal breaker (like in case you do no longer desire an ex/toddler interior the image). only dropping the bomb on you and awaiting you to return to a decision what he potential approximately it, isn't cool! He ought to know that, yet he did no longer. no longer cool. he's gonna shop doing this, and in this I recommend, no longer sharing relatively significant issues and then only letting you stumble on it out on your person (ie. tom catting, alcoholism, drug behavior, illegitimate little ones, debt, only desire intercourse, and so on) He already has toddler help money, and different duties, he ought to be seeing 2 or 3 different ladies as nicely you asserting "sorry I ought to computer screen my 4th grader, ought to %. them up, ought to take them to and so on,and so on,and so on," you could like him, yet you do no longer in all possibility comprehend him in any respect.

2016-10-30 12:04:42 · answer #2 · answered by staves 4 · 0 0

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