Im dating an older man. 51. He seems to look forward to Sat. night. That is our time to have sex. Im not always satisfied sexually because he cannot keep an erection for long. He gets angry when Im not able to be there on the weekend and I know he enjoys the intimacy. He seems to get really pervertish in alot of ways. Ive noticed this with older men as ive spoke to ones online who seem to be the same way about sex. Am I doing something wrong? Am I the one who takes this out of context?
2007-05-06 07:44:47 · 9 answers · asked by luvDocean99@yahoo.com 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
My theory is that the reason older men seem more "pervish" than younger men could be because they are deprived sexually in their older years. Perhaps they just haven't had a girl look their way in a while, maybe erectile disfunction. Perhaps the man is sexually frustrated?
2007-05-06 07:54:53 · answer #1 · answered by ChelleBelle333 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So what is the age difference?
And what do you mean by pervertish?
An older man can have problems keeping an erection do to many factors. Heart disease, diabetes, drugs that his doctor may have prescribed.
2007-05-06 07:50:44 · answer #2 · answered by ♥♥The Queen Has Spoken♥♥ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ive seen this before with my cousins and aunts ( lots of crying) there are times when ppl get old and want to enjoy this type of thing with younger women to the point when they dont even care who the women is. At points in life everyone meets someone who really wants your body more then you i cant tell you what to do thats your desision but my personal opinion is to slow down alittle and maybe talk to him about this express your feelings to him and tell him its making you feel akward ok?
2007-05-06 07:54:15 · answer #3 · answered by flys_in_the_wind 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some still think they've got "it", and have to prove it more to themselves so they will talk rather off color to any woman at any age.
Rather creepy.
Him getting angry is rather selfish and should be a red flag.
2007-05-06 07:58:25 · answer #4 · answered by outtahere2day 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He MIGHT not be a pervert. Sometimes when people get older, they get less and less inhibited. Maybe he is just more free about expressing what he wants.
2007-05-06 07:49:43 · answer #5 · answered by JSSJ 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Nope, its the stereotype. All that bs is supposed to be tough, and a lot of people are that perverse.
2007-05-06 07:50:27 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
All older men are not that way. If you do not feel comfortable, move on.
2007-05-06 07:49:58 · answer #7 · answered by demetria_nyree 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No - they loose testosterone and they have less sexual desire, relative to when they were young, that is.
2007-05-06 07:52:16 · answer #8 · answered by bill h 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not a rule!
2007-05-06 07:52:44 · answer #9 · answered by Sara007 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋