My byfriends mother is a 43 year old hore!!! She goes out to the clubs every weekend and basically has sex with every guy she meets. My boyfriend (now future husband) never likes to admit that his mother is a bad person. She likes to start problems with everyone. She is a BIG **** talker. She is not responsiable and she can't even support herself. She askes her son for money all the time and she still talkes ****. He knows I don't like her and we have a lot of arguments about her.......what do I do?
2007-05-06 03:52:02 · 9 answers · asked by me 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No matter how bad a parent is, nobody likes other person to judge the one who raised him. It's your hubby's case, also. I think you should keep the bad words for yourself and don't come between him and his mother. He obviously loves her no matter what she does. She was the one who gave birth to him and took care of him for so many years. No guy likes a girl to talk bad about his mother. If you do that, I doubt your marriage will last for too long.
2007-05-06 03:58:07 · answer #1 · answered by BabyGirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am a girl but I thought your question was interesting.
The truth is that if this is going to be your future huband, you are going to have to accept his mother. She will after all be your family. You may not like her and she may be useless, but the useless woman did raise a son and he is obviously a pretty good guy or else you wouldn't like him. Just imagine that one day she might stay with you for a while. Don't make him choose between the 2 of you. It isn't a fair choice. If you don't feel that you can accept his mom as your future childrens Grandma, than it might be possible that you two should not be together. The one thing in life you cannot choose is your family. Sorry and good luck.
2007-05-06 11:01:33 · answer #2 · answered by Crazy_Fool 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Bori, Im not a guy but cant resist this one! First of all, dont you know that nothing can come between a mother and son...regardless of the issue. Secondly, NEVER talk s*** on anyones Mom, and Thirdly, just stop arguing about her. Its apparantly not helping the relationship plus its a mute point!
Shes an adult and its noones business what her social life consists of. How would you like her butting in your business? And in the event that she does, let it go cuz shes just pushing those buttons that she knows will p*** you off! Its gonna be HIS responsiblity once you two get more serious to tell her he can no longer support her and to start cutting the umbilical cord. In the meantime, you need to just chill and keep your mouth shut when it comes to her. Your constant complaining to both him and her is just making a bad situtation worse. But more importantly, its really none of your business - at least not until you two are married. Focus on yours and his relationship...not his and hers or yours and hers....those are of no concern to you.
2007-05-07 08:40:11 · answer #3 · answered by Debbie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is his mother and will always be his mother. If you think she is a problem today, just wait until you make her a grandmother. My advice, is to change guys.
2007-05-06 10:59:07 · answer #4 · answered by craig_swg 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would hate my girl. My mom is a sweet old woman who does nothing, but try to please others by cooking meals and making sure they are comfortable. I would have to be going out with a real ***** for her to hate my mom.
2007-05-06 10:55:26 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't marry him - huge mistake.
He'll defend/support her forever.
2007-05-06 10:57:58 · answer #6 · answered by I Like Stories 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump him,than he will have to decide on you or his mom.
2007-05-06 10:56:06 · answer #7 · answered by gerdie65 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would agree with her
2007-05-06 10:56:42 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
leave his mum alone, SHE IS HIS MOTHER no matter what
2007-05-06 10:55:28 · answer #9 · answered by zayed 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋