i chose him over a guy whom i thought better be neglected..but things turns out that he's not the ever good man i think of...now im still figuring things out if he's still worth for the love..and im very sorry for letting go theother guy whom i thought was ...some sort of a weird guy....
2007-05-06 00:41:05 · 10 answers · asked by plush_doll_17 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
At least you aren't married where it destroys you completely when you find out that your spouse betrayed you and cheatedd on you! Good luck in figuring it out. It takes time. I wouldn't rush into antoher relationship, it would confuse you.
I wouldn't seek the other guy too quickly either. Take it slow.
2007-05-06 01:09:45 · answer #1 · answered by ACME 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think women make too much of it when a man has sex with another woman. Not that it is desirable or even excusable, but the emphasis women place on sex is not the same as a man does. A man will have sex even with a woman he dislikes. It is a man thing, and in no way diminishes the way he feels for the woman he loves. It is just a physical thing for a man.
2007-05-06 00:47:36 · answer #2 · answered by Anthony F 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have too much respect for myself to put up with a man cheating on me. That's really the bottom line. I ended a relationship with a man I was wildly in love with, because he cheated. I knew I would never trust him, ever. You can't have a relationship without trust.
I decided I'd rather walk away with my self-respect and dignity intact than to reduce myself to someone I couldn't look at in the mirror.
That's me. You have to decide for yourself what you're willing to tolerate. Love will die if not nutured. Cheating is not nurturing, it's totally toxic.
2007-05-06 00:47:32 · answer #3 · answered by Kaia 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Never judge a book by it's cover. Let the love rat go and go find 'the weirdo'. I won't be suprised if dosen't want to know you! But I guess you've laernt your lesson. Good luck, Mizz Judge! x
2007-05-06 00:47:08 · answer #4 · answered by LEIGHA. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Live and learn ! If you are brave enough, and the timing is right, go find the other guy and tell him what you just said. It won't hurt anything, and the other guy will at least know your true feelings. He may have moved on, but at least you won't live on wishing you would've said something.
2007-05-06 00:50:05 · answer #5 · answered by Scorpius59 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
pray that the other guy could forgive you. girls most likely change their partner due to over extended time of relationship.more then half regret it because they found out that the cool guy who is repleaceing the one they dump is not even have the worth of the last one. pray he'll forgive you and hope that im not giving any advice to the one you dump.
2007-05-06 00:53:13 · answer #6 · answered by beyzta 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Break up with the new guy, go back to the old guy. Or find a new guy.
2007-05-06 00:44:55 · answer #7 · answered by xoxl3eachl3abexox 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Can you live the rest of your life with this guy knowing he is a cheater and in your heart you know you can trust him?
2007-05-06 00:45:09 · answer #8 · answered by Patty G 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well time will heals or u can forgive him but think what if he cheated on u again what would u do then??!!
2007-05-06 00:44:28 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
now, its dinner time., wake-up.
2007-05-06 00:45:43 · answer #10 · answered by kenn 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋