I dont know why, but i hate to do it. And my bf knows it. It really bothers him and he takes it personally. It is just a little gross to me.
2007-05-06 00:01:56 · 23 answers · asked by D 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Absolutely. Guys like to say that ALL girls do it. What crap. If he needs you to do it, you need to find a new boyfriend. I knew college seniors that had never even tried it, for various reasons. Girls who feel like they HAVE to do it, will hate it later in life when they WANT to do it...Kes
2007-05-06 00:13:13 · answer #1 · answered by Kes 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I've been dating a guy for almost 7 years and I don't give bj's either... obviously I make up for it in other talents... if he doesn't like the fact that you won't give him bj's, then find you a new man that will respect what you want and don't want to do... There's plenty of them out there.
2007-05-06 00:30:08 · answer #2 · answered by Cujo's Mom 3 · 4⤊ 0⤋
i'm unlikely to offer you a step by potential of step technique on the thank you to do it, i'm assuming you be conscious of the fundamentals, insert penis into mouth, do not use enamel, and use your tongue. inspite of the incontrovertible fact that, through examining your message there is obviously a extra physically powerful subject here, you look insecure with your self, no count if or not that's the case, that is substantial on your boyfriend to be there for you. i'm valuable he's, yet you will be able to desire to ask him to possibly assist you to alongside the way. keep in mind verbal substitute is the beginning place in any dating, so please attempt to communicate to the better of your understanding, that is going to pay off. -Ryan EDIT: this could be a rapid reaction to "erm" calling the sexual act "demeaning to females human beings", then he/she jumps to the tip that "He has not admire for you". nicely permit me ask you, Erm, if that became the case, he does not be pleased together with her not even doing the act. of course he respects her, he respects her sufficient to make valuable that she is happy, that is rare presently. Please get off your feminist intense horse, thank you.
2016-10-14 22:02:21 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure. There is more to a relationship than bj's. Ask him to go give someone a bj and see how he likes it.
2007-05-06 00:11:16 · answer #4 · answered by Wild Bill 7 · 7⤊ 0⤋
That thing was made for a totally different reason! Just tell him that you Mom always told you to keep things out of your mouth, that didn't belong there. Also tell him, the animals don't have sex that way!
2007-05-06 00:07:56 · answer #5 · answered by Gerry 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋
if i loved her then i would date her. if i didnt love her then i wouldnt date her. who cares about bjs there are lots of other things you can do. =)
2007-05-06 00:23:59 · answer #6 · answered by dwickleworth 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Rule #1: Never ever do anything that you are uncomfortable doing sexually. If your boyfriend is so bothered that he can't accept it, then you two should call it quits.
2007-05-06 00:06:32 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
dont worry about it bj's arent every thing . if thats all he can get mad about then he has some serious issues.
2007-05-06 00:07:27 · answer #8 · answered by phillip s 1 · 3⤊ 0⤋
i have dated women like that yes.
do you like oral sex? what if he stopped and you two just kiss and stick it in? doesn't it sound a bit dull? making love to a mans member...totally thrilling the sh!t out of him...fulfilling his desires... is gross? i've never demanded that a woman drink me, or even get me close...the feeling during is amazing. sex is amazing...enjoy pleasing your partner...enjoy him pleasing you.
2007-05-06 00:10:36 · answer #9 · answered by m37734 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
if u dont like one way dosent mean u r a failure there r various other ways u can compensate him and satisfy him
2007-05-06 00:12:02 · answer #10 · answered by sas35353535 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋