Whenever I watch tv in our living room and I'm sitting on the 2-seater couch, my apartment-mate always sits right next to me on it. Why doesn't he just sit on the other couch that's a 3-seater which is right there?
2007-05-05 22:02:03 · 14 answers · asked by Jenjen 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Etiquette
my dear,it so happens that nobody wants to be lonely.Your apartment-mate sits just next to you because he feels natural just to be next to a human being instead of sitting alone on the 3-seater.You should not be bothered with this just welcome him because he do this to show you that you're the same and he likes you.
2007-05-05 22:14:58 · answer #1 · answered by Shatim 1 · 1⤊ 2⤋
i know i was at the doctors office and theyhad all those chairs and couches and this man sat right next to me on the couch. I don't know why people do that. I guess they are all along.
2007-05-05 23:33:32 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
One of two reasons - He has no concept of personal space, or a different one from yours, or he believes that you two are closer than you feel you are.
If he's in your space let him know that he's making you uncomfortable, or that you just want more room. If he can't/won't respect that, maybe you need a new roomie.
2007-05-05 22:11:33 · answer #3 · answered by Barb Outhere 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think he must not be aware of the another couch or it can be he just wants to get more closer to u. if u hate this pls straightway tell him or u change ur seat to show ur disapproval. if still he doesn't understand make him understand with ur firm words that how much u hate his behaviour. be bold. don't spoil ur mood by others wrong behaviour.
2007-05-05 22:09:52 · answer #4 · answered by Ashley 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Haven't you worked it out? He is a male, and you are female. Can't you take it as a compliment? It's just a sofa, he aint stalking you.
2007-05-05 22:40:29 · answer #5 · answered by Lucas 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes i also hate it when people crowd me because i like my space
2007-05-05 22:12:45 · answer #6 · answered by cheri 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
sounds like he wants to get cozy with you. maybe he wants to be more than your flat mate.
2007-05-05 22:06:35 · answer #7 · answered by ? 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Because people are weird like that.
2007-05-05 22:05:28 · answer #8 · answered by Staci C 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
seems that your apartment mate want to be your buddy, baby lol
he/she certainly want to know you better and be your friend..:)
2007-05-05 22:06:15 · answer #9 · answered by norman davis 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
humans are social animals they need company most times i guess either he is too social or likes you!
2007-05-05 22:04:58 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋