my boyfriend is in the army and i havent seen him in quite some time.
when he comes home, i really want to be able to surprize him sexually with some new things, or with just a really good time.
if you were coming home after not seeing your girlfriend for a long time, what would YOU like to do, or have her do?
haha thank youuu!
2007-05-05 19:18:47 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
After everything, sex or anything sexual is actually the last time on my mind. He'd just wanna be with you and hold you. Just do something simple and watch a movie with him or something, relax from everything he's done so far. After a while then you can offer everything you can. It would be a nice surprise if a girl suddenly made a set meal all prepared for a guy if possible. All you have to do is dress up and look sexy for him and not suggest anything. If he's in the mood for anything intimate, he'll make the move himself then.
2007-05-05 19:24:51 · answer #1 · answered by Steven 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do what you want to do.
Frankly after coming home from a long deployment he will be trying to do all he can to not just rape you right then and there. You should try to get him to take a fast shower and then move on to dinner or the bed. If you join him in the shower than expect him to want to start right then and there. Getting him clean and smelling nice might be YOUR first priority.
You should have him a nice homemade meal, one that can be reheated and wear very little under you clothing. You could even wear an old nightly with a slit cut at the seam and tell him to just rip it off.
Roses, candle and songs are nice, but after that long of a deployment he will want sex and he will want it ASAP (As Soon As Possible). Men are more goal orientated then looking for special things to go with the event. So if you want that you need to do it. It will make him enjoy the event more, but most men only want to do the deed.
I think the old nightgown with some of the seams pulled and a few strategic cuts made in it will really get him hot and in the right move. There just might be a chance that you will be fulfilling a fantasy he has had for a while. What ever you do sex will be number one on his mind next to food. Remember that he has had a chance to eat a lot of fast food and cafeteria type food so if you cook him one of his favorites, even it is only grilled cheese sandwiches then he will appreciate that more than any restaurant. Like I said though make sure the food can sit and wait, if you give him half a hint that you are ready he just might want to do it on the kitchen table.
2007-05-06 02:33:12 · answer #2 · answered by Dan S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He most likely is in an odd place. Just be yourself and do what you know he likes at first. He doesn't want to worry about where you have learned all these new things... Save the creation for when you are together. Above all, empty his manhood. Then worry about food. But that night, show a little of your needs. Make note of any pushback as it will only amplify when he is gone again. Deal with these issues promptly.
2007-05-06 02:22:17 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly Sex may not be the best thing right away, He also may be a little distance when he get home because depending what he does, there is a lot of crazy s**t that goes on over there. I would give him a few days before giving him sex, but i would listen to what he has to say, cook him dinner/ take him out to his favorite resraunt, but the best thing that you can give him is the support of a loving family.
2007-05-06 02:25:06 · answer #4 · answered by privatecop625 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being in the military myself.....and if he was good while he was away.....just sex. Anal if you can handle it. Being deployed for a period of 12 months you just miss sex period. It doesn't matter how you do it or what you do as long as its being done. After he gets enough of that then it would have to be getting drunk at a bar. Also, use a condom with him too because he will probably say that he never cheated on you, but I can guarantee he probably did so just be safe.
2007-05-06 02:23:33 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
honestly i am a military wife and when my husband got home all he wanted was just sex for like a week straight he wouldn't even let me leave the bed lol but if you want new things go to a near by sex store and ask for a recommendation! good luck!
2007-05-06 02:22:26 · answer #6 · answered by thatgurl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would love to see my wife waiting for me in bed with another woman. Sick perverted guys. Anyway, what does he like and just take it a step further. If he likes ora l and you don't swallo w, do it this time, something like that. You could also try roleplaying with a sexy outfit from fredericks
2007-05-06 02:22:25 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say just about anything will do the trick. I would find out when he gets back and where and then rent a room close by and not waste anytime getting it on.
2007-05-06 02:21:56 · answer #8 · answered by sdo3lg 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think if he is in the army, there is not much girls in there except the nurses, if I were him, I think I want to see my girlfriend dressed as a very sexy nurse. that would be a very good surprise. and I know that will turn him on instantly.
2007-05-06 02:23:31 · answer #9 · answered by mikolotsky 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think what you should do is prepare him a nice dinner then after that you can put on
a sexy baby don in the botom of your cloth!!!
it always works!!
and just strip for him and all!!
hope you have a good time!!!
2007-05-06 02:24:31 · answer #10 · answered by girl!!! 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋