I know that not all guys are like that. It's just that whenever I tell a guy that I want to wait until I am married to have sex they either:
A) don’t take me seriously OR B) breakup
2007-05-05 19:04:56 · 23 answers · asked by dancer 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Your generalization of "guys" is really broad. As a guy, I know there are many guys who would have no problem with that concept but it depends on the guy and the level of his maturity and your relationship. I would also have to say thought that despite the fact that there are many guys out there who would support your decision, there are many more who won't or don't of aren't evolved enough to support it. If you're in an exclusive, committed relationship, it shouldn't be a problem. If the men you're dating don't take you seriously and/or breakup with you when you state your decision, that's probably a good thing as they obviously aren't the right guys and that gives you more time to find the right guy. And to all the women who think that guys think or act only on the behalf of one head, I'm really sorry that that's been your experience.
2007-05-05 19:22:14 · answer #1 · answered by coolestdudeswin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, your right, not all guys are like that, but a lot of them are. They give a bad rep. to the guys who are willing to respect that decision a female makes. Guys are horny. Its pretty much their nature!! Haha!! You'll know when you find the right guy who truly wants to be with you, because he will respect that decision. Dont worry, there are guys out there who will wait. Stick to your decision, and whatever you do, DONT let them talk you into it if you dont want to. Ive seen that happen one too many times, and the girl always regrets it in the end.
2007-05-05 19:11:14 · answer #2 · answered by DuckieM10 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
They don't take you seriously because most girls don't mean it when they say that. I've had girls tell me that, then you find out later they gave it up to some jerk they just met. I would love to find a girl who was like you and was truly serious about that. Having a girl save herself for her husband is so incredibly sweet and it means so much. Keep the faith and don't give in to the jerks of the world. Your a keeper.
2007-05-05 19:16:24 · answer #3 · answered by Jim V 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe the question is what type of guys are you dateing?
A guy who will respect you will not give you this kind of pressure.
How about finding commons of these kinds of guys who will not respect your wishes and see what you are missing for standards before you date a guy. You know what I mean? Good luck.
Guys who do this are selfish. They are only out for themselves and you should thank someone for them getting out of your life a.s.a.p. :)
2007-05-05 19:10:16 · answer #4 · answered by beachgirl90 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yano what i think? i think guys could careless. they have hands, right?
but in a way, they feel they need to prove themselves to other men-" yeah, i got laid" or "yeah i dumped her cause she wouldnt put out."
they act tough in public, but theyre still human underneath the bullsh**.
SO! if you want to wait until marriage, awesome. the one you are meant to marry will be the one who understands it and respects it. until then, let the other jerks go and forget about them. if all they wanted was sex, youre a better person than them. you have nothing to prove to anyone, unlike them, so laugh about how ridiculous they are, and move on and be the better person for it.
2007-05-05 19:12:25 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's because that is so old fashioned. You won't act like an old time woman, but want the guy to act like you are one. You'd never agree to got steady, get married and never work and stay home with the kids..and never leave or divorce him. So why should he respect the silly not until marriage part.
2007-05-05 19:13:11 · answer #6 · answered by null_the_living_darkness 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Guys think with the wrong head girl! Simple as that!
2007-05-05 19:11:03 · answer #7 · answered by karenhar 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well it means they have to wait too,life is to short to wait,we are here today and gone tomorrow sad to say,we never know what tomorrow will bring us,and it would be sad to leave this world not know what sex really feels like,if you are of age and mature for sex.
2007-05-05 19:10:42 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
i completely understand and i kno where ur coming from and i think tht its lame but a true guy would stick by ur side and a true guy would wait for you if he truely wanted to be with you and loved you
2007-05-05 19:13:31 · answer #9 · answered by bowler_chic27 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you are obviously dating the wrong kind of guy..
drop the so called "macho" guys , "thugs", or "cool" guys..
look for an honest, sincere, kind, and 'good" guy..he doesnt have to be the ost popular or whatever..
you would be surprised, there are awesome guys out there is you just open your eyes and broaden your prospects..
2007-05-05 19:08:55 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋