Why do women frequently choose to be with guys who hit them? Is it that much fun being beaten?

Answer 1

I have NEVER been with a guy who physically abuses me..

I do not understand the rationality of other women who do..

I believe they need serious psychotherapy for letting themselves "love" abusers..

Answer 2

These women usually get hit after they have invested some time and effort in the relationship and feels that they are better off remaining in the relationship as noone else would love them as much as this guy who love her so much that he gets jealous becos he suspects this and that and thats why he hits her..

Women are soft hearted and being loved meant so much to them that they are willing to overlook other things.

Hence, some women end up dead from beating. It took a great deal of effort and lots of support from family members to really harden their hearts and leave the man.

It is no fun being beaten no matter what the reason.

Answer 3

Women frequently choose to be with guys who hit them because those men come across as knights in shining armour when women first meet them. The man gets them emotionally attached and then he begins his rage.

It is never fun to be beaten and humiliated by another human being. What you have to understand is when a woman is in an abusive relationship, she's wounded. Her self esteem is gone. Her pride is gone. She sometimes pretends to the world that everything is all right. Her abuser has total dominance over her and it isn't fun...

Answer 4

I can tell you from personal experience, it's not as simple as you make it sound. I was with a guy for over 7 years, on and off, had 3 kids with him, and tried to hold it together cuz I felt my kids should have their dad in their life. But he is a 7 day a week drinker and did abuse me, and finally had enough. For some women, it's not as easy to leave as it ended up being for me. For some of them, it's stay and risk worse than a beating or leave and get killed. I guess it's kind of hard to make you understand if you've never been in that situation, you know? But I didn't choose to be with an abuser - I chose to be with him cuz I liked him at first and then it was down the road that the other crap happened.

Answer 5

1.Some women feel bad or worthless about themselfs and they think they deserve to get hit.
2.Some women think there is something wrong with them that they can't get a good guy, so they stay with the one that hits
3..Some women think all guys hit and people just hide it.
4.Some women think it's thier fault that thier guy hits them. They know he is a hitter, but she did not have dinner ready.
5.Some women see the hitting as not a big deal because he is such a great guy the rest of the time. Sure he slamed her head through a wall on friday...but after that it was a great weekend and he did all kinds of cool stuff for her.

Answer 6

low self esteem, low self worth, they think unwisely it is somehow their fault, that they can change this person if they do this or that,they think they deserve it, so women are like some children that think any attention they get is good even if it's bad and some bad evil guys take advantage of that. That's very sad!!!
Those women need counseling in loving and cherishing themselves and understanding they can not change a man like that. She should run not walk away from a guy like that. She should tell him to let the door hit him where the dog should have bit him. No she probably should not say that, he would just get violent. But that what I told some of my ex but they were not abusive. I would tell them I could do bad all by myself. Women should realize that their are men who love God and would not dare putting harming hands on a woman I know I have been married for 15 years to a prince of prince. He has never cursed me or but his hands on me to cause harm.

Kindest regards-
Vicky

Answer 7

I didn't know that it was a frequent thing. I think that some women that are very low in self-esteem are attracted to guys that aren't, and they end up scared of them when they start hitting them. They threaten them with their lives or the lives of their kids, and they aren't strong enough to leave and never look back.

Answer 8

These poor women are crazy, if you ask me! (and you did.)Too often they're worried about not being able to take care of the kids. Well, they are legally supposed to get child support. So often the guy sobers up, and apologizes, and swears he loves her , and he'll never do it again. Yeah, until the next time. These women should take pictures of the bruises, and call the police. He'll never change. I'm with you. It's ridiculous. C'mon, women!! You don't desrve to be hit by any man.

Answer 9

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Answer 10

It has nothing to do with "low self esteem" -except maybe aciting as a trigger in certain cases for certain females

It has to do with:

1. Evolutionary baggage (hardwired into their DNA) which sometimes directs modern females toward controlling, abusive, and cheating males

2. SURVIVAL - human females have one primary goal in life: GENETIC survival - meaning they will risk personal survival to mate with a male - increasing their ultimate chances of survival, even if their personal survival is threatened. Seed spreading and violence increased male odds of reproductive success for the first 3 to 5 million years