All his friends talk about sex with their gfs and how great it is, my bf doesn't talk back about it.... he says because he thinks its private and, "I dont talk about that stuff with ppl", I figured hed at least talk about it to try an be cool and fit in with the guys, guess...not??
2007-05-05 18:22:09 · 22 answers · asked by Red_lipstick 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think he is admirable. It's best not to talk about it with other people.
2007-05-05 18:26:33 · answer #1 · answered by the Boss 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Your boyfriend sounds like he was brought up in a home that taught the children a few manners and proper things to do and not do. It is considered crude and rude to discuss your intimate or private business with someone. You are violating a confidence that the other person had in you. Unlike you, evidently, most girls don't want it spread all over school that they are easy marks and have sex with guys.
2007-05-05 18:35:40 · answer #2 · answered by don n 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Doesn't mean anything bad about you or your lovemaking at all. It means he respect you and like he told you, feels that it should be private - just between you 2. My fiance doesn't do the locker room talk with his guy friends either, and I know darn well that there's nothing wrong with our sex life. Your guy's a keeper ;)
2007-05-05 18:35:03 · answer #3 · answered by melissa_53105 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me like you have a very mature boyfriend. So what's the problem? He is right. It is private. Guys who go around talking about their sexual exploits with their girlfriends, don't have a lot of respect for either their girlfriends or themselves. So to answer your question, does it mean he doesn't like sex. No. What it means is that he respects you and he wants his friends to respect you to. He don't want them viewing you as some dirty whore. Peace and God bless.
2007-05-05 18:29:02 · answer #4 · answered by cave man 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My husband is the same way, very private about our personal life and I always took it as a sign of respect. It's me who needs to learn how to keep my mouth shut, eheheh.. It is better people don't know everything because they can and will judge you for the good or the bad.
2007-05-05 18:28:03 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It doesnt mean that its bad, when all my friends talk about it i dont say anything because its private and not every guy brags about getting laid that nite, it just means that the ones who dont say anything have respect for there gf.
2007-05-05 18:28:54 · answer #6 · answered by Erech D 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, if he says its private then thats how he feels, maybe he isn't comfortable talking about it, or doesn't want to be disrespectful - not meaning its bad sex. Get over it, not everyone talks about sex with their friends.
2007-05-05 18:26:13 · answer #7 · answered by dstrbd4godsmack 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
um...you need to seriously chill. do you know how many girls would kill to have a bf that didnt put all her buisness out there to his friends. now i cant tell you wheather or not he likes the sex...but if he does then its a good sign he's not telling his friends. that shows a serious respect for you and yall's relationship. and if your still wondering if he's enjoying the sex ask him.he'll probally tell you the truth..he is a guy lol
2007-05-05 18:27:06 · answer #8 · answered by carmeldymond 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You should consider yourself lucky that you have a guy who wants some things to remain just between the two of you
2007-05-05 18:41:02 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
he has nothing to talk about which means hes not impressed!!! so heres what you do next time you are out with him and you are with a bunch of friends start talking about the great sex you both had last night. and see what his reaction is, i bet you will watch him scurm
2007-05-05 18:28:00 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
your bf is right it is private. You should not really talk about with your friends only between each other.
2007-05-05 18:27:07 · answer #11 · answered by Mandy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋