2007-05-05 17:19:16 · 33 answers · asked by SoldierSide 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It's so strange. If so many of you like guys like this, how is it I have had little luck with girls? I am good looking (but not HOT) and have an OK body... aah so frustrated...
2007-05-05 17:27:23 · update #1
Well I don't know about all the other girls but I prefer cuddling and getting emotionally close to a man before the whole sex thing starts. It sure doesn't sound like there is anything wrong with you. You actually sound pretty perfect to me. I guess it all comes down to personal preferance but don't worry I'm possitive that some lucky girl is going to scoop you up like ASAP.
2007-05-05 17:38:55 · answer #1 · answered by J 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not everyone is the same. It's wrong for anyone to think that a guy is just a sex machine. Some guys want it all the time, some don't. Everyone is different. For a girl who likes walks in nature, cuddling and being with a caring person, this guy could be perfect. If he NEVER wants to have sex, though, maybe he needs to consider what it is he is feeling for the girl ... That's my opinion.
2007-05-05 17:23:03 · answer #2 · answered by Bluewaterwoman 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It relies upon on the fellow. there's a e book I research the 5 languages of love. one in each of them is compliments. i'm useful each body likes a praise the following and there. This lady, i'm guessing, is in all likelihood grateful to what you're telling her, yet per chance her famous expression of love isn't inevitably compliments, or she's embarrassed, or already has yet another guy, etc. women are very complicated-it truly is like attempting interpreting a dictionary from starting up to end with consistent updates. i'm a lady myself-i comprehend XD i imagine what you should do which include her and in basic terms be a superb pal. do not bathe her too a lot with commpliments. Get to understand her-have time-honored conversations. i imagine once you're in basic terms relax which include her she'll sense extra comfortable being round you. and ultimately at the same time as she's waiting she'll confess to you even if she likes you interior an same way in go back. do not rush relationships-it isn't in any respect a superb idea
2016-10-18 06:02:35 · answer #3 · answered by latassa 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on the girl. I know I really like a guy who likes to cuddle because it makes me feel secure and safe. I think it also helps the girl realize that it's her that he wants, not her body. I had a dream once where I was just snuggled up with a guy in front of a fireplace, and it was the best moment I've ever had, unfortunately it was just a dream : )
2007-05-05 17:23:01 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he sounds awesome. He's not all about sex and he obviously have a sensitive side and most likely will listen to a woman. He still wants to be close to a woman, but not push her to be in a sexual relationship if she doesnt want it at that time. Almost any girl would go for a guy like that in a heartbeat.
2007-05-05 17:23:10 · answer #5 · answered by linny5227 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love them. I don't like guys who are aggressive and mean and only want you for sex. The kind of guy you are, are our favorites. You are rare and there should be more of you.
We luv you. :)
You have no luck with girls? really. That is hard to believe. All girls like guys like you! Okay, maybe not alllll girls, but i do. Maybe girls just aren't used to the kind of guy you are. You know? Most guys are well...aggressive and the opposite of you. So, it is a change. a GREAT change. maybe girls think you are just putting on an act for them that will dissapear. See, all girls really DO want a guy like you, but they are afraid that when they find one like you, you are just fake and telling them what they want to hear for sex or something. Some guys will tell you ANYTHING to get in bed with you. Maybe they think you are one of them. To prove you aren't, just be sweet, gentle. And don't rush them for sex. This will prove alot to them. That they aren't sex objects and that you love them for who they are.
2007-05-05 17:23:47 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
HMMMMMM, that he cant get it up! tee hee hee hee..... the walks in nature are great! Cuddling is good for about 2 minutes afterwards, but then thats it. you better be ready to ride and grind and give it like a man oughta give it to a woman who knows what she wants!!!! YEAH BABY!!!
oh, so sorry got carried away with that answer. GIVE IT UP DUDE!
2007-05-05 17:30:06 · answer #7 · answered by teena662002 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Gay?
No, I mean we don't mind that stuff at all, but it's not what a girl usually encounters with a guy so I doubt she would know how to respond.
2007-05-05 17:23:03 · answer #8 · answered by Mintygoodness1 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound like my husband. I think it's okay sometimes but it gets old. I feel like he is the woman sometime. I like a man to be a bit more manly sometimes. Show me some testosterone.
2007-05-05 17:24:25 · answer #9 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
willingness to cuddle is a huge plus! i hope this guy finds a girl who appreciates his preferences for how to spend time together.
2007-05-05 17:25:10 · answer #10 · answered by mynydd_mor 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋