weve been dating for 10 months, and i really love him, but i mean we dont kiss, or hug.. [[were 12 but i mean still i want to be comfortable around him]] we both try, but i find it hard to get out the words sometimes and talk to him , i always think im going to do something stupid or that i wont no what to say and itll be akward. does anyone have any tips to help?
serious and APPROPRIATE answers only!!!
2007-05-05 17:14:20 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
IM NOT TOO YOUNG. im turning 13 in 2 days, and im in 8th grade, my mom knows about it also, and btw hes 14, im just in his grade cause idk.
and i said SERIOUS ANSWERS ONLY.
so please, give me actual advice and i will pick u as best answers
and well we have hugged, but idk... it was akward for me but he almost made it.. comfortable...
2007-05-05 17:28:03 · update #1
well i guess im comfortable around him, i just idk!
im confused. and no im not too young
basically im asking this cause last night we went out and he just kept staring and me and idk then at this party he wouldnt even go near me and then all the sudden he comes up and told me i was "the most amazing thing that ever happened to him and he had so much fun" and he asked me to go out again NEXT FRIDAY! and i mean im excited but then i called him later that night and i said "well im sorry if it seemed like i was ignoring you, i was just nervous" and he said he noticed and that he understood
oh and he knew how mad i sucked at football and still picked me first and everytime he passed me the ball or i passed to him he blushed is that a good sign???
2007-05-05 17:33:29 · update #2
wow, I really think that you both are too young for that and are not ready. I have never heard of a relationship who have been together for 10 months and don't kiss nor hug. I think both of you are too young. If you are not comfortable with him now, then I don't think you will be comfortable later... If he is your bf, you should be TOTALLY comfortable because he is your bf...
If he is your bf, then he is going to love you no matter what you say....NEVER PUT YOURSELF DOWN OR QUESTION YOURSELF!! He is not going to judge you, you are with him for a reason....just think about it :) Good Luck!
2007-05-05 17:20:09 · answer #1 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ummm...you are my younger sisters age...and you are way too young to be worried about being physically "comfortable" with a boy. You are a child. You need to be focusing on school and enjoying time with your girlfriends. The time will come for boys, but again you are way too young to have this concern.
Young kids today...first they are worried about kissing and touching, and then you end up with babies having babies...
What has happened to our youth?
2007-05-05 17:21:23 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes. your young. and ive been there and done that too. Deffentaily ask him and two friends to hang out one day. Get to know him more and talk to him more then atleast three times a week. Or more then just school.
2007-05-05 17:19:27 · answer #3 · answered by tiffanie_says 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
quit trying so hard.... relax a little and have fun.. be yourself.....it is okay to mess up your words, he will probably do the same thing.....don't put demands on yourself ... at this age, there probably is not a lot of heavy conversations, so just go along with things and keep the conversation light and fun...you probably laugh and do silly things together which is fine...
Neither one of you is ready for something else right now.
when you are it will happen...don't rush it... you will ruin the moment.....
2007-05-05 17:23:13 · answer #4 · answered by doclakewrite 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you're 12? And on beginning administration? you probable are slightly tensed up after intercourse. you ought to enable it bypass. maybe you're thoughts is which you wanna do it back. EDIT: Sorry. besides possibly having intercourse replaced into too super of a circulate and you'd be afrida or prepared to do it back.
2017-01-09 13:59:57 · answer #5 · answered by oser 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if you guys don't know each other that well. you should talk ALOT more talk about what you guys are into instead of relationships and stuff. it even helps to hang out with him. get the exposure. don't force anything that you don't want to do yet. don't even worry about the whole "doing somethin stupid" he likes u for u and not the stupid stuff you do.
2007-05-05 17:23:49 · answer #6 · answered by Djoy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go on a double date with your friends! EVERYBODY HAPPY! And to everybody saying too young, shut up! I know a lot of people that are 12 and they do that suff. (no dirty stuff)
2007-05-05 17:18:09 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hm, me& my b/f have been datin` for 9& a half months& we are so comfortable around eachother that we fart on eachother. . yea, but anyways, just be yourself. . don`t think your goin` to do somethin` stupid. . if you love him& he loves you then you guys should care if you do somethin` dumb or just practice what you will say to him before you say it. . i`m sure everything`ll get better :]
2007-05-05 17:24:06 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go on a movie date with him. Or just go to the mall with a group of freinds. Always go with freinds so you aren't uncomfortable.
2007-05-05 17:17:14 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your 12. You shouldn't be kissing him or worrying about it.
2007-05-05 17:17:53 · answer #10 · answered by Jackie Oh! 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋