me and my girl friend broke up like 2 months ago because of some problems.i guess its because she ahd an attraction towards that guy.but it didnt workout between them.and she realizes that she has cheated me and says that she doesnt want to do this to me and nw she talks to me as if we were together.i really love her and never gave up hope that she'd come back to me. how do i tell her that she means a lot to me?and i love her very much.because she is hesitating to get back together. we have been together for 3 years now nd broke up like 2 months ago
2007-05-05 17:13:33 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
After three years she hurt you and then came back after two months, so maybe she never really felt deeply for the other person, it was just a fling. If you want to get back with her, OK, but why not give it some time and she can sort herself out. If she stays focussed for a few months, maybe she is sincere. If she gets a new bf straight away, maybe she just can't be without a guy, any guy. You do not deserve to be 'any guy'. Find someone who loves you for yourself.
2007-05-05 17:20:46 · answer #1 · answered by Bluewaterwoman 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You may love her but it doesn't sound like she has the same feelings for you. If you get back together with her be prepared for another heart break when she breaks it off again for another guy.
or
She may just not know what she wants but she wants to make sure there isn't someone else out there better, before she settles down with you.
In either case she doesn't have as strong of feelings for you. So be careful when you get involved with someone that doesn't feel the same about the relationship. It can be the cause of a lot of trouble later.
2007-05-06 00:31:36 · answer #2 · answered by Rumin 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This sounds great, I'm happy for you! I am not sure where the problem is. Are you concerned that she doesn't know you still love her? All you need to do is tell her. She realizes she was wrong, and she wants you back, you want her back. Everybody wins! Girls sometimes needs more than just verbal reassurance, though, so think of something that she really likes.. maybe recreate a special scene that you two have shared before, to let her know that you haven't forgotten, and that you still love her like you have for the last two years. Good luck! =)
2007-05-06 00:20:43 · answer #3 · answered by Chocolate_on_the_Moon 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Been there done that. If they cheat once they will most certainly do it again. Don't be a fool, she is only coming back around because it did not work out with the one she left you for. She will cheat again and when that relationship fails she will be back once again. Don't be a safe place. Stand up and tell her she is not wanted and that she hurt you, tell her to take a hike. You are not a door mat. You have feelings that are true and she should have respected that.
2007-05-06 00:22:00 · answer #4 · answered by Sherrie C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's a tough one. If you love her and want to be with her, then tell her that. You said she talks to you like you guys are together, so I would just put it out there and get it over with. If she says she doesn't want to have a relationship with you or something stupid like that then she is dumb and it is her lose because you sound like a really good guy. She better open her eyes and realize that she has someone that will respect her and love her and that is hard to find.. Good luck, hope it all goes well.
2007-05-06 00:20:55 · answer #5 · answered by DarkStar 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it sound like both of you need some space to deal with what
going on.. if you and her are meant to be then , it will work
out. keep thing simple for now, and then see how things go
from there. dont rush anything.
2007-05-06 00:20:02 · answer #6 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do what you want to do. but dont make any verbal commitments. she probably wants them to feel secure. you are the one who will be in control if you dont let her feel that all is 100% aok. who knows she may drop you again. keep your feelings to yourself till you figure out what she is made of.
2007-05-06 00:19:38 · answer #7 · answered by WORKING OLDER SMARTER BLONDE 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take her to a reastaurant! Tell her she's hot! Tell her if she wants to make out with you. She says yes. Go to your room.
2007-05-06 00:16:58 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try telling your ex to go find herself,!!! is she the type that can't be alone?
2007-05-06 00:17:36 · answer #9 · answered by kitkatish1962 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
move on,once a cheater always a cheater
2007-05-06 00:16:48 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋