Im a junior guy at high school. And well there is two girls i have strong feelings for. One, a younger sophmore girl and the other is a senior. They are both good friends too. The younger one has really liked me for a while and i knew about it but didnt ask her out because i didnt have that strong of feelings for her because she is younger and i really liked this other girl. The other girl is a senior, most beautiful girl ive ever seen, who ive liked for more than a year now but ive been too shy to talk to her and never really figured i had a chance. Up until recently when i heard she was talking to the younger about how they both like me..the younger girl finally made a move and asked me to hang out with her and i did..for 5hours that night and it was great we talked so much and she basically gave me her life story and she has had it soo bad i feel so bad for her like i need to be there and help her and i also developed feelings for her..not as strong as the senior girl but
2007-05-05 17:11:34 · 6 answers · asked by jeffy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i still havent even talked to this senior girl yet but she is soo beautiful i think about her every day but im a really shy guy and hardly see her to ask her out. The younger girl i got to know and had a great time with and im pretty comfortable talking with her but i think we're still friends at the moment..i left her that night with no kiss or anything. I would go out with her but the senior girl will be leaving the school so i wont see her to ask her and give us a chance and i know if i go out with the younger girl i will still think about the senior girl.
2007-05-05 17:14:28 · update #1
well they are both hot that isnt too much of an issue but the senior girl is a lot hotter and theres something about her i just cant get over and ive always felt like we would be perfect for each other...the younger girl has a great personality, never talked to the older one so i wouldnt know but she seems soo nice and cool
2007-05-05 17:18:23 · update #2
its not all about compassion with the younger one..just a bit
2007-05-05 17:19:53 · update #3
hmmm, if you like the young one, i would stick with her, she sounds like she was meant for you..forget the senior, once she goes away to college it will be the older men she will be after..
2007-05-05 17:15:17 · answer #1 · answered by judy c 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't settle. never settle. no matter how much it seems that the younger one may need you, you shouldn't date her solely because you feel sorry for her, because when she finds out (and she will eventually find out) it will make things worse. go for the gold: which seems to be that senior girl you've been crushin on for quite some time. the simple fact that you were considering dating the younger one out of compassion, even though your feelings for her aren't as strong, shows that you're a sweetheart who deserves what he REALLY wants.
2007-05-06 00:16:35 · answer #2 · answered by caramelle_chica 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try just being friends with both of them for a while. If you can't decide, well you can't decide for now. You said that both of them are friends, try being friends with both of them. It will be hard, but if you are only friends with one of them it will make the other jealous. The other (and probably more sane) option would be to stop and association with both of them. It would cause the least damage and would give you time to sort things out.
2007-05-06 00:21:09 · answer #3 · answered by ♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to go by personality, not by how "hot" they are. Give each of them a chance, and see if you can become friends with one of them.
Whatever you do, do not attempt to "go out" with bolth girls, that is foolish and will lead to heartache for all of you!
2007-05-06 00:15:56 · answer #4 · answered by Whitney Jo. 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well aren't you confused,, JUST BE A FRIEND! sounds like your too confused to do much more right now.!
2007-05-06 00:15:40 · answer #5 · answered by kitkatish1962 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pick one
2007-05-06 00:14:22 · answer #6 · answered by zen522 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋