im 20 years old. im sociable, pretty (not smokin' hot or ugly, not super skinny but not a heffer either), generally im "that girl" who always ends up being friends while others around around me nab the boyfriends... i dont try to hard but if a guy showed any interest i would most likely go for it. i like adventure and having a good time.. im easy going.. but i just have never seemed to be able to get myself a boyfriend! its kinda frustrating, whats wrong with me??
2007-05-05 17:06:46 · 17 answers · asked by candita 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Problem is you've haven't met me =d. Well the real reason would be girls NEED to try as hard as guys. Talk to them, get to know them, hang out with them. Guys don't serve themselves up on a plate. Get out there and even ask them out if you have to! (Not really, but hang out-wise lol)
2007-05-05 17:10:45 · answer #1 · answered by Steven 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing is wrong with you. You do not need to have a boyfriend to have a good life. I know you heard this before, because I used to hear it, too. I never believed it, and then I ended up marrying a guy just because I thought something was "wrong" with me, and I figured it was better to just marry some one instead of wait for a person who did not exist. It was a horrible mistake that ended up in a horrible divorce. The only good thing that came out of it was I had my son, but now he has a split family because of my mistake.
So, I'll tell you what the world told me and hope from my heart you will listen. You are a good person. Some one out there can love you for who you are. You never know when you will meet him, but he is out there somewhere. Just be yourself and it will happen. When you do get into a relationship, take your time and don't rush it. Most importantly, don't obsess over it. Just live your life. Go on adventures, work on a career or school, have fun, meet people and make friends. You'll find you have a full life and then suddenly the boyfriend will appear.
I know it's hard. I didn't wait, and it was horrible. Just believe in yourself and everything will turn out okay.
2007-05-05 17:15:35 · answer #2 · answered by xila31 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if any guy was worth it, and actually stopped to think (no offense to guys) he would've asked you out. You don't seem like your pushy, so that's not the reason. The most logical thing would be that no guys are worth it. A guy who thought that you were worthwhile, well he should've done somthing about it. In other words, nothing's wrong with you, and keep yourself the way you are ( corny I know but it actually works)
2007-05-05 17:14:07 · answer #3 · answered by ♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you know when i was younger i never had and girl friends. now I have no problem and i just meet a woman and i just love her alreadly i would never tell her this at this point. are you beening to forward. you sound like a nice woman. i know don't what to tell ya. sorry i thought i did but no luck.
Ok one last thing have you try a little older .. just tell them you like them . maybe they will get it young guys are dumb i was if i see a woman I want i go for it and most of the time I get her. working one now wish me luck i am so into her
2007-05-05 17:14:16 · answer #4 · answered by swm_38nc 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nothing maybe the right guy just hasnt gone around im old fashion and usually wait for the guy to make the first move but maybe you should try to make the first move if you're really into the guy and see what happens
2007-05-05 17:10:44 · answer #5 · answered by maranzano doll 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well im usually the guy who never has a gurlfriend and im a good looking guy myself a little muscular 5-11 friendly funny but i cant get one either but i think its just because of ur area u kno u dont fit ther..
i meani had alot of girlfriend in my old one i was like the most popular guy in high school but i changed city and it suks now
my senior yea i cant get a prom date :*(
2007-05-05 17:11:35 · answer #6 · answered by Johnny 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your hangin with people who in comparison look better than u.... hang out with someone who u kno looks worse than u and u'll love the results
2007-05-05 17:14:12 · answer #7 · answered by Cutie09 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be active. Lots of guys are little wussys now and won't act by themselves. Show that your looking for a boyfriend.
2007-05-05 17:09:45 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
i usally end up being the fried to all the girls im like the oppisite to of u it sucks i know but u will find a bf sometime
2007-05-05 17:09:48 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Nothing is wrong with you. Please don't say that. Maybe you aren't putting out enough. By that I mean maybe you aren't making yourself noticed enough that no one bothers to look at you. Try talking to more guys.
2007-05-05 17:10:14 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋