Me adn my boyfriend have been together for 6 months and I know he loves me and everything but it is illegl for us to be together....he has already been to jail for me once becuase i am 15 and he is 18 but we love each other to much to not to be together what should i do??
2007-05-05 17:04:21 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
why are you young girls in such a hurry to be so commited to a boyfriend - giving up your innocence because you think you are in "love" . if you truly are meant to be with this man it will sort itself out when you are an adult! I know you feel like you are grown up as this is as grown as you ever have been - but you have so much to experience - If you tie yourself down before you are an adult you will not become the INDIVIDUAL you could be.
Work out what other dreams you hope for in your life - pursue them - get a sense of yourself - let this young man and yourself grow up to at least an age of appropriate consent. You will have a better life together if you have done some growing apart before you truly commit to each other.
So what should you do is break up with him, work on yourself to reach your individual potential and fulfill your dreams and then when you are old enough see if there is a spark left see if he and you are right for each other then.
Stop trying to grow up so fast - youth is a precious thing which should not be wasted. If your BF wrote the same thing I would give him the same advice as 18 is very young too.
2007-05-05 17:23:17 · answer #1 · answered by mickylee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
keep your relationship on the DL for a while. You need to be careful, because he is 18...i dont see much wrong with it, but that is how the law works.
just a piece of interesting info...did you know that once you turn 17...sexual contact (not to say that you are being sexually intimate) isnt considered molestation. A law enforcement teacher told my friend that...who is 17 and i am 16 btw.
You just need to be careful and not give anyone a reason to worry about you.
2007-05-06 00:10:44 · answer #2 · answered by linny5227 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How is it illegal for you to be together? It's not that great of an age difference.
If you truly love him and you know he'd never hurt you then you should by all means go for it.
If he's been to jail for something dangerous though...
2007-05-06 00:07:56 · answer #3 · answered by SarangHaeyo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give yourself 3 more years
2007-05-06 00:07:36 · answer #4 · answered by zen522 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wait till youre 18 you might think differently
2007-05-06 00:07:26 · answer #5 · answered by Juillet 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The person who created that law is gay.
do what your heart tells you to do.
2007-05-06 00:08:43 · answer #6 · answered by Magnun S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be smart..wait till your an adult or atleast 18 years old..
if he loves you, he will wait for you..
2007-05-06 00:07:51 · answer #7 · answered by The Chesire Cat 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he went to jail?....it's only illegal if you guys sleep together...not if you date eachother
2007-05-06 00:08:53 · answer #8 · answered by Leeda 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋