I'm gay. I have a buddy that doesn't know I'm gay. He's str8 but he HAS to know I look at his crotch when we're talking. He never says anything. Does this mean he actually would like for me to do things for him or he just doesn't want to call attention to it. He's always trying to embarrass people but has never said anything about this. I would just like some feedback.
2007-05-05 16:58:15 · 18 answers · asked by Sam D 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Try looking into his eyes when you talk to him...don't read too much into this...
2007-05-05 17:02:11 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I doubt that means he wants you to take your relationship to...well, another level :). It's possible he hasn't noticed--I doubt he'd jump to the conclusion that you were staring at that area, esp if he doesn't know you're gay. He might just think you're staring at the ground, or don't feel comfortable looking people in the eye when you talk. If I caught a guy staring at my breasts, I probably wouldn't bother saying anything (unless it were in a creepy way, and I wanted to still be friends with him). But I'm lesbian, so he would be sorely mistaken if he thought my silence meant I wanted to do the dirty with him! :)
2007-05-06 00:04:46 · answer #2 · answered by kacey 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your so wrapped up in this it's like a pedophile thinking that a little girl or boy is flirting with them and wants sex. Get your mind out of the gutter. You've already admitted you look at crotch. So what? No you he doesn't want you touching him.
2007-05-06 00:04:02 · answer #3 · answered by myjamsandwich 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hmm definetly make sure u dont get the wrong idea that could b embarassing for both of u. i think cause ur his mate and maybe hes guessed ur gay that he feels embarassed and doesnt wanna say anything just in case hes wrong and it may be awkward? dont get teh rong impression hes probably not enjoying it. it would make me feel uncomfortable as a guy
2007-05-06 00:11:50 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Probably the same thing when men talk to women and stare at our breasts. He probably doesn't want to embarrass you. I wouldn't think it meant anything more. If he is interested, he'd tell you.
2007-05-06 00:01:40 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Uhhhhhh...I'm not gay, but I have had girls try to kiss me at a slumber party. But I think you should tell him, I'm sure it probably wouldn't hurt your friendship with him. But try not to stare to much, it'll probably scare him
2007-05-06 00:09:35 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bring up a convo that leads up to the Q: are you gay?
2007-05-06 00:02:57 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That just as bad as a guy staring at a girls chest.. it is really disrespectful , no matter what the sexual orientation is. LOOK UP!!
2007-05-06 00:02:56 · answer #8 · answered by kitkatish1962 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ok it's not polite and kinda weird it probably makes him uncomfortable like it makes us girls umcomfortable when man look at out boobies. I would stop ok your not that desparate I hope.
2007-05-06 00:07:08 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe he is just trying to save your friendship..or else he likes you looking at his crotch
2007-05-06 00:04:57 · answer #10 · answered by jargon blue 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋