Of course, I mean turning them down, NOT encouraging them. I don't want to be tacky or embarass them too much.
2007-05-05 16:53:21 · 10 answers · asked by blindly_invisible 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Etiquette
I need a good way to say it subtley, because I don't want to sound egotistical, maybe they weren't trying to flirt but it just seemed like it.
2007-05-05 16:59:33 · update #1
If you talk on a daily basis, just in general chat say something like "my husband and i ...." or "Oh yea! My husband is into the same thing." Or something like that. That's what I do.
2007-05-05 16:58:06 · answer #1 · answered by puska777 2 · 7⤊ 0⤋
Mid-conversation, mention your husband. For example, if you're talking about movies, and the guy says he likes Star Wars, say "My husband tried to get me into watching that, but I just can't get into it."
If you know the guy in person (not over the phone, internet, or email), you should have a ring. Make it obvious.
Keep in mind, though, some guys just flirt, so you don't want to have a talk with him or bring this up only to find out he's not exactly hitting on you.
2007-05-06 02:19:54 · answer #2 · answered by CrazyChick 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Do you wear a wedding ring? That should say it all. If he doesn't notice or care, you don't have to mention you are married, or any other personal information. Just say no thanks. If you want to let him know that you are married, just say "I'm sure you're very nice, but so is my husband and I'm expecting him momentarily".
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2007-05-06 00:08:01 · answer #3 · answered by PaulCyp 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
ya bring it up in conversation and/or flash ur left hand (where the ring should be) and smile.
2007-05-06 00:04:01 · answer #4 · answered by the.journey.is.the.reward. C.P. 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
there is no other way to do that but to say it. straight out. i'm a married woman. thanks anyway. that isn't rude or embarassing in the least.
2007-05-06 17:26:22 · answer #5 · answered by racer 51 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
keep touching, feeling and fidgeting your wedding ring on your ring finger, that should be a very loud and clear message.
2007-05-06 12:03:50 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Ask them if they are married and let them know that you are.
2007-05-06 00:00:09 · answer #7 · answered by liberty11235 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
just show the ring don't say anything
2007-05-06 02:39:46 · answer #8 · answered by von1979 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
In your conversation say: "Recently, my husband and I.."
2007-05-06 01:19:15 · answer #9 · answered by I need help 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
"Sorry, I'm married."
2007-05-05 23:56:22 · answer #10 · answered by Logan M 4 · 3⤊ 2⤋