This 20 year old asked me out and I am 14 of course I told him no. But do you all think that is right.
2007-05-05 13:17:46 · 55 answers · asked by sexybabygirl 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Absolutely not. Follow your heart. not age benchmarks
2007-05-05 13:25:39 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, a 20 year old should not date a 14 year old.
2007-05-05 13:20:24 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No way, he may be as mature as a 14 year old, and you may be as mature as a 20 year old, but he will expect things from you that you are not old enough to give. Tell him, if he really thinks you are worth it then he should wait until your older--say at least 18. I have seen relationships work with the guy 23 and the girl 17 when they go married--the two have now been married for 17 years--half her life! Although, they are still going strong, she couldn't have any kids of her own and I think that may have had something to do with her being too young.
2007-05-05 13:27:57 · answer #3 · answered by spacebuff2001 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think a 20 year old and a 14 are in totally different worlds. I am 20 right now and people that much younger have different things going on in their life and are in different stages. And guys who are that much older and the girl is under 18, usually it seems like they only want sex, or they could just really like you.
2007-05-05 13:21:01 · answer #4 · answered by sprklstephy08 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO. Something is very wrong with a 20 y/o guy asking a 14 y/o girl out.
He is not seeking discourse with a worldly woman his equal. He is seeking intercourse with a minor that has very little world experience that he can use because he can not relate with women near his own age.
Yuck. How pathetic is that?
Apply that same 6 year difference to a couple in their fifties and there is a big difference as they have had a world of experience to draw upon.
2007-05-05 13:27:28 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is not a good idea to date a 20 year old
2007-05-05 13:22:14 · answer #6 · answered by Anna 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO! there is something WRONG w/that.
#1- that is ILLEGAL big time!!
#2- think about it..what is a 20 year old wanting w/a 14 year old
#3- would ur parents allow it
and most importantly
#4- HE'S GOING TO USE U!!!
do the right thing and say NO!
2007-05-05 13:20:28 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
not at all. the changes which occur in persons in their teens are far to dramatically different than that of the changes occuring in a 20 yr olds life. it would never work. everyone knows this, so when a 20 yr old asks a\out a 14 year old they're just trying to take advantage of them
2007-05-05 13:21:02 · answer #8 · answered by candi b 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely not! It's perverse and illegal...that is, if he knew your correct age! I have a question for you. Why, at the age of 14, is your name "sexybaby"? You'll have all kinds of perverts after you with that name. CHANGE IT! And, if you met this 20-year-old online... did you make it clear that you are only 14? If you did and he STILL asked you out, it's illegal. He needs to be reported.
2007-05-05 13:25:09 · answer #9 · answered by heart64art 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well uh I am 14 and I like an 18 year old and would date him..
but once it goes past 18 that's gross because 19 20 that's NAST.
2007-05-05 13:22:57 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Eww, hell to the no. A 20 year old knows better than to try to be with a 14 year old, you made the right decision.
2007-05-05 13:20:05 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋