I have a girlfriend that I care about but I can't stop going on line to meet more. I asked her to only see me because she is the first girl that has good sense. Why cant I stop. I may loose her because of it. She is not controlling, she makes me laugh, sweet honest trustwrothy, I also enjoy her children. My boys get along with her girls. We've been together for 8 months now. I feel no wrong in going online but she is hurt. what should I do.
2007-05-05 11:48:54 · 6 answers · asked by masseywaitinglove 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
STOP IT RIGHT NOW......GET RID OF THE INTERNET AND COMPUTER IF YOU HAVE TOO. BELIEVE ME ON THIS. I MET MY HUSBAND ABOUT 6 YEARS AGO ONLINE.... 3.5 YEARS LATER WE MET AND WE WERE HEAD OVER HILLS IN LOVE....AND WE MARRIED, WE EVEN HAVE A BABY TOGETHER.....BUT HE HAD SAME PROBLEM AND I WALKED OUT.......WE ARE TOGETHER AGAIN NOW AND THERE IS NO COMPUTERS OR INTERNET IN OUR HOME. IT TOOK SOME TIME FOR HIM TO GET USED TO IT AND HE HAD TO FIND OTHER HOBBIES (COOKING, GARDENING TO OCCUPY HIS TIME) BUT ITS WORTH IT. IF YOU LOVE HER AND DONOT WANT TO LOSE HER, YOU MUST GIVE IT UP RIGHT NOW. ITS NOT WORTH WHAT YOU WILL LOSE I PROMISE YOU. IT WILL RUIN YOUR LIFE AND DESTROY YOU IF YOU DONT GIVE IT UP......AND EVEN IF THIS RELATIONSHIP DOESNT WORK OUT IT WILL RUIN ANY THAT YOU HAVE IN YOUR FUTURE, BECAUSE YOU HAVE AN ADDICTION. FOR YOUR OWN SAKE GIVE IT UP!!
2007-05-05 11:56:04 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow. I would be extremely upset with him. Whether he is cheating or not is a mystery that only you can decide, but coming to that conclusion based on some emails from a site he registered to isn't fair. He may just be teasing some women or feel the need to see what it would be like to have an online affair. Either way, he is wrong for even thinking about another women, much less leading them on the way he is. Confrontation is the best. The sooner the better. You do not want to continue on this way, allowing him to believe he is being secretive. You need to be honest with him and let him know what you know. I wish you the best.
2016-05-21 04:01:20 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you going online to find girls just for the sake of it, I think you should stop doing so because you are messing a relationship that you are happy in and you are hurting your girlfriend.
If you are doing it because something is missing in your relationship, talk to your g/f about it and try to find a solution.
2007-05-05 11:53:57 · answer #3 · answered by peachy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds to me as though your just looking for the sake of "what else is out there" the reason why she's hurt is that you think there is something better then her. If at the end of the day you think that too then end it because there are kids involved. If you think she's the one and that there's nothing better then take the plunge and delete your profile.
Frankly, I found my boyfriend advertising himself on one of those sites and dumped him that same day. Your lucky she thinks your special enough to put up with that behavior... I didn't!
2007-05-05 11:56:37 · answer #4 · answered by Sage B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
K, this is quite hard cause it seems to me that your addicted to going online. Convince your self that it is hurting your relationship and your self. I know you feel no wrong in going online but she does. Do you wanna have a happy life or just an online woman fanatic? Your choice.
2007-05-05 11:53:55 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
stop going online and trying to meet people or you stand a chance of losing her..DUH?
2007-05-05 11:52:30 · answer #6 · answered by Ghanaian Princess 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋