He should no longer be a pastor.
Thinking that pastors are above being human is a mistake many people make.
I am sorry you have been hurt like this, I believe you can rise above this with GOD's help. You notice I said GOD not the church. Only GOD can give you peace. People cannot.
I recommend you search the Quran (in English of course) for your answers. May Allah/GOD guide you to the truth and set you on the right path.
2007-05-12 20:43:37
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answered by Pam 3
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I truly feel anguish at your experience, and know you've been through a horrific ordeal. Assuming your accusation is true (and as you've now given names in print, which means you're liable to to charges for libel if they're not), then you should go the police and report what happened. But although you're right in saying they should burn in hell (all people should, for we all have sinned), blaming all Christians for the behaviour of false brethren is wrong. I recommend you find a God-fearing church, and ask the pastor and elders there for help.
Your drug problem definitely must be dealt with, as that just traps you in a spiral of false elation followed by despair; the more you take, the more you need, and so on until nothing works and you end up in the gutter. But just as, or even more important -- though very much more understandable -- is the destruction to your life hate can cause. Please read 'The Hiding Place', by Corrie Ten Boom, and 'Miracle on the River Kwai', by Ernest K. Gordon, for the very real, personal testimonies of people with just as much reason to hate as you have, yet through the power of the in-dwelling Holy Spirit found a way to both forgive, and help not just their friends but even their former enemies.
Jesus loves you, and went through the most horrendous torment imaginable so you could join Him in heaven: don't deny yourself that privilege because of the behaviour of wolves in sheep's clothing.
I pray God will open your eyes to Him. Keep searching for Jesus, for He's the One who makes all things new.
May God bless you.
2007-05-05 18:40:04
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answered by Already Saved 4
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I am so sorry that you had this experience but it is not the fault of Christians, but the fault of those in positions of trust in that particular church. Most Christians would not try to cover this up and would have made sure that you received the counsel, love and support that you so obviously needed and still do. I pray that God will lead you to people who will help you and that He will demostrate His love through them. I will pray that you manage to overcome your drug problem with His help and that He will set you free from the hatred in your heart. God bless.
2007-05-05 17:00:50
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answered by lix 6
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I am so sorry that you did not get justice . I am also a victim of abuse , ANYBODY who hurts people in this way should be prosecuted to the fullest extent and the church should be the one to call the authorities and back up the victim instead of protecting the guilty.
2007-05-05 16:40:25
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answered by lme 2
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the pastor should go to jail.....and get molested too
that is NOT christianity.......the guy is a devil...you got that part right...
not sure what to do....since he works inside a corrupt system....look for other witnesses, and victims...go outside the county to get help from a different group of people..may get the pastor on a tv show...and let the media get him convicted
2007-05-05 16:44:25
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answered by Anonymous
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I am sorry you were molested as a child. True Christians are not just "Christians" in name. The devil is smart enough to have his false Christians in every church. God is the Judge and will pay back one day! He loves you!
2007-05-05 16:39:15
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answered by Anonymous
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just because some christians are evil devils does not mean they all are, and no one deserves to burn in hell. do not let your sad, bad experience make you into a bitter person, or you will only succeed in creating your own hell, of misery and self pity. move on with your life. forgive and forget. let go of it and learn to love God.
2007-05-13 15:53:15
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answered by harridan5 4
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the same thing that should happen to ALL child molesters. Have their toe nails pulled out one by one. I cannot find it in my heart to forgive these people.
2007-05-05 16:51:58
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answered by Starjumper the R&S Cow 7
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File charges and let the law take over.
2007-05-05 16:38:42
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answered by ? 7
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.Sorry for what happened to you. They should go to jail. And find a new church.
2007-05-05 16:38:37
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answered by Jennie 5
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