My girlfriend of 5 mo. has had sex with 2 people and done other stuff with like 3 more. i love her very much but every time i even touch her she moves my hand, or if we are around anyone she gets mad and moves it.
she tells me that she has never felt the way she does to me to anyone else, ever.
i can understand the part where she isnt ready for sex. but nothing at all for 5 months is driveing me up the wall, its like to her there is nothing inbetween sex and kissing.
she always talks about doing stuff and having sex but every time we get close she trys to start a fight or accuse me of pushing her into it.
i dont know what to do anymore, its driveing me crazy
and no other person she has done stuff with was in a relationship with her, it was just random hook-ups..
any input from a female will help me tremendously.. thank you
2007-05-05 06:53:44 · 9 answers · asked by Magic M 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
we've had the talk about her thinking i just wanted sex, because after 1 month she was saying she was ready, and we kept getting in fights because she really wasnt and wanted to cover it up that way
but after 4 months i caught on to that and i told her not to say she was ready untill she really is, and then wednsday she did it again and that time i really thought she was serious, then we got into a whole big thing about that..
i mean i can wait on sex, but nothing for the 5 months has turned me into a weak little man
2007-05-05 07:05:39 · update #1
yes i feel more for her than i thought i could anyone. and i think i may be her first serious boyfriend, because she always talked to guys a whole lot older than her, and she never could date them.
i dont get where she says shes changed and thats why we cant have sex. about 2 months before we started talking was the last time she did "stuff". most girls i ask tell me that once they start they cant just stop like that. but obviously she is diffrent.. anymore input now that i said this?
2007-05-05 07:11:09 · update #2
she obviously wants a long steady relationship, and you mean A LOT more to her than all the other ones. she obviously doesn't want just physical. give her some more time. es, 5 months is a long time. but maybe she doesn't want physical anymore. or she's just really causious now, she could think that you just want sex. who knows.
2007-05-05 07:01:12 · answer #1 · answered by sydy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's in basic terms as puzzled as you're. She is likely afraid that issues were gettin a touch too frisky at the moment. rather if she's nonetheless a virgin, too. concepts of transferring onto the subsequent factor must be terrifying for a lady and he or she will be able to from time to time times experience like somewhat of meat and back off a touch, even idea you do not see her as somewhat of meat in any respect. you could refer to her about it and keep it open about the position the relationship is going and what you men are open to and enable her comprehend the way you experience. She'll savour that you already know her sufficient.
2016-12-05 09:43:53 · answer #2 · answered by halbritter 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she isn't telling you the truth. Perhaps she exaggerated a little to get you to notice her and then ask her out, without thinking of the concequences once that came to be. To me it seems a little odd that she would be so forth coming about just random sex, but so reluctant to do anything is a committed relationship. Maybe back off from getting her to do it, and enjoy just making out for a while longer, and encourage her to open up and be honest.
2007-05-05 07:04:43 · answer #3 · answered by ♥Instantkarma♥♫ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you know what the situation was like when she did these things, maybe she was forced into it more, and didn't like it in the end. Maybe her feelings for them wasn't as great as they are with you, perhaps she doesn't want to ruin what she has with you with things like sex. Be honored. She may have just wanted sex from them, but she wants so much more from you. She proabbly just had some bad experiences.
2007-05-05 07:07:54 · answer #4 · answered by manoshopefully 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As weird as it sounds maybe shes just afraid of messing things up with you, sometimes I'm like that. Do you feel a special connection or are you her first boyfriend?
Need more detail, but if you have any other questions..
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2007-05-05 07:06:08 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have been in your girlfriends situation. wait til she is ready! the reason i didnt do it was because i loved the guy so much i wanted to wait for the perfect timing! and when we waited, it was amazing! we are still together now and i am glad i didnt just give it to him. just be patient. the time will come!
2007-05-05 06:59:18 · answer #6 · answered by Kelsey L 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I've heard of that before. Probly she feels like she made a mistake and is trying to revirginize herself till marriage.
2007-05-05 06:57:56 · answer #7 · answered by ~The Drama Queen~ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well i think you should just ask her about it theone of the most most important things in a realationship is talking about your problems to the one you love
2007-05-05 07:02:26 · answer #8 · answered by Sweet_angel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk about it and find out whats wrong? if she cares she will understand
2007-05-05 06:59:45 · answer #9 · answered by ggiro861 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋