they will date non muslims but dont find them good enough to marry
2007-05-05 05:56:27 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
No the Guy can marry outside of Islam
The woman who is Muslim can not marry outside of Islam
The woman is who carries the name, religion in Islam
2007-05-05 05:59:52 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Don´t stereotype.
Any man could treat a women poorly, it is not dependent upon religion. There are enough white, black, ...etc.men who would act like this.
I must say, that in my experience, Muslim men treat women aquaintances with a lot of respect. But if they are actually
"dating" someone for "fun", then they are not being that strict about their faith. Nevertheless, they could still be a great person, with great intentions.
I know a number of "mixed marriages" where the man was Muslim (at least culturally) and the woman is/was not a Muslim. These women were self-confident enough to marry outside of their own cultural circle, and if the man had treated them poorly, they would not have wasted time with him. The opposite was true. They were treated so well that they would rather be in a mixed marriage, (which is not very easy at times).
Really, you can find good people and bad people everywhere, if you look. Stereotypes like these are very harmful.
2007-05-05 06:43:30 · answer #2 · answered by jenny 4 · 4⤊ 1⤋
You are wrong. I know many Muslim men married to non-Muslim women and they are all very happy and the women are treated extremely well. (I was also a non-Muslim woman when I married my Muslim husband) Also, as others have stated, Muslim are not supposed to date or engage in pre-marital sex.
2007-05-05 07:16:41 · answer #3 · answered by ♥ terry g ♥ 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, that is not a statement you can make. Some do, most don't - just like in every other group of males.
My Muslim husband met me, married me, and is married to me knowing that I will never convert to Islam, and he accepts that entirely and treats me like a queen. He practices his religion but respects me enough not to push it on me.
I know quite a few Moroccan Muslims married to foreign women (several of whom live permanently in Morocco). As far as I'm aware, they have great relationships.
2007-05-05 11:05:09 · answer #4 · answered by nomadic 5 · 4⤊ 0⤋
I don't know. My ex-boyfriend is Muslim, but I'm not sure if he treated me badly because of his religion, or because he wasn't very nice. It would make sense that is was his culture, but only because his parents were planning on an arranged marriage. When we first started dating, he was completely against his arranged marriage. But he never really "invested" himself in our relationship. I'm not talking money wise, just emotion/feeling/caring/timewise. By the end he was convinced an arranged marriage was the way to go. We ended amicably, no knock down drag out fights or anything. I think we were just both ready to move on.
However, we were never in love with each other, just in like. I think if he had loved me he would have chosen differently. So I don't know if it was his religion, his family, his culture, or just a luke-warm relationship.
2007-05-05 06:12:34 · answer #5 · answered by smlingrl 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
ok what ur sayin cud be true. its because muslim is a pretty orthodox religion but i do respect it since i have a lot of muslim friends. the religion does not appreciate inter religion marriages. may be if u convert to a muslim then u cud be more acceptable to him, his family and specailly to the religion. so its not a question of good enough to marry but rather the religion thing.
2007-05-05 06:03:48 · answer #6 · answered by ARNAV 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no my mothers cousin married a white woman. most muslims dont even date, anyway. Its ok to get to know someone you want to marry, but it is not ok to date with no intention of marriage in islam
as smilingrl said most of the times that happens, its because of the parents
2007-05-05 06:18:52 · answer #7 · answered by E.T.01 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well, according to a 1960s marriage manual put out in conjunction with - I believe - the Anglican church, it is perfectly acceptable and in fact desirable for a man to have some sexual experience before marriage. As women, naturally, have to be virgins on their wedding night where is a man to get this experience from? Well, professional or amateur prostitutes obviously. For the record, he wasn't expected to treat them with the same respect he would his future wife, as obviously they were tainted goods.
2007-05-05 06:07:25 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
If a woman dates someone from another religion, she should be aware about what she is getting into. If she has not been forced into it, she'll have to face the consequences. Besides, women must not take abuse of mistreat from anyone, even if the guy is from her own religion.
2007-05-05 06:02:46 · answer #9 · answered by Millie 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
yes, many Muslim men here in Europe date our Girls use them for sex, and when it comes down to getting married they let them fall and marry some girl (a virgin of course) from the country the originate. Some date women here and have a wife and children in their home country.
2007-05-05 06:42:37 · answer #10 · answered by Sternchen 5 · 0⤊ 4⤋