I'm 14 years old and my boyfriend wants to have sex with me.What should I do?I love him with all my heart and we have been together for 2 years..But i'm not ready.Does anyone have any suggestions?
2007-05-05 05:53:38 · 24 answers · asked by Lil mami luvs u 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
don't take this the wrong way but you don't love him you are accustomed to him. he is the best that you have available to you at this time. you are only 14 you have such a long life in front of you. don't rush into anything that you don't want to do. and at 14 yrs old your bf will be "in love" with any girl who will have sex with him. all boys say that because they think that sex is the most important thing in life at that time (due to puberty). just wait until you are ready and if he really does love you he will wait. if not then he was not in love with you and you wont have been pressured into having sex with someone who doesn't appreciate you. and as a side note it is possible for a 14yr old to get pregnant too. believe me you will have plenty of sexual partners in your life time. you have college to look forward to and that is where alot of sexual experimentation happens for alot of people in the world. you will meet alot of different people in college and even if you are still with your bf (which i would doubt) you will probably find someone more interesting who fits with you better then your bf does. im not trying to tell you how to live your life, just letting you know that if you were my daughter i would hope you would have more respect for yourself than to let someone else talk you into doing something that you are not ready for.
2007-05-05 06:10:13 · answer #1 · answered by colonel pain 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
first of all you still young i would say wait but i be wrong can u talk to ur mom as a friend i mean u shouldnt do anything u still to young sweetiethink about it u cn come out with a baby at a young age u ready for that u should talk to a family member u trust and wont yell at u ok take ur time dont rush ur serlf ok
2007-05-05 13:00:57 · answer #2 · answered by evelyngarcia2012000 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you say you aren't ready and have to ask, you ARE NOT ready. You will know when it feels right and you won't hesitate. If you have to even think of whther or not you want to, you aren't ready. You're still young, you have your whole life to have sex. Wait. You may regret having sex too soon, you can always have sex when you know you're ready.
2007-05-05 13:46:23 · answer #3 · answered by ocean's mommy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you arent ready, my advice is wait until you are. if he loves you he wouldnt pressure you and hell wait till the time is right for the both of you. 14 is an early age to start..there are many consequences that come with having sex and i know i wouldnt be ready for that at that age..take your time..its nothing to rush over..have fun being a kid
2007-05-05 13:17:06 · answer #4 · answered by sweetness 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you said your not ready, you answered your own question. Your only a virgin once, so only have sex when you think your ready for it. If he has been waiting this long, he can wait longer. And if he refuses, your better off without him. Your to young to be having sex anyway.
2007-05-05 12:58:29 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You`re too young...when you start having sex you have to be ready of the consequences meaning a pregnancy. You have a life time to have sex, don`t be in a hurry.
2007-05-05 12:58:28 · answer #6 · answered by Jane Marple 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you are too young! And by the way why did your parents let you date at 12???That is insane, you need more supervision. Wait until you are older and can handle the emotional feelings that go along with sex. If you do end up having it please use a condom!!!
2007-05-05 12:59:13 · answer #7 · answered by mom of twins 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you already answered it. you're not ready. and if you wait until your heart and mind tell you that you are, and you don't have a doubt about it, then it will be MUCH better than if you do it right now. believe me, just wait until you don't even have to ask the question about whether or not you should.
2007-05-05 12:59:42 · answer #8 · answered by azwoman 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are not ready than no. And frankly, if I were your age I'd wait a few more years. Don't let him pressure you into it either, or you'll regret it.
2007-05-05 12:57:09 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You shouldn't do it, especially if you're not ready. You could get pregnant and that would probably ruin a lot for you.
2007-05-05 13:00:42 · answer #10 · answered by bekah 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋