when i was at work, is this cause for break up?
2007-05-05 00:14:18 · 25 answers · asked by camiflage 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well if it was me, i would break up with him . He has disrespected you and your daughter.
2007-05-05 00:17:42 · answer #1 · answered by Proud mommy of 2 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
So let me get this straight: The man that you are in a relationship with hit on your daughter who is 21 years old? And it was while you were at work and you don't know whether too break up with him or not? If your in a relationship with this man, I'd say confront him about this. Does he usually flirt with other women? Whatever it is, I don't think it'd be an exact cause for a break-up, and it depends on WHY he was flirting with your daughter? Was it just a simple little harmless flirt? Or was it a more relationship threatening kind of flirt? Whatever it is, you're gonna have to confront the issue, and decide for yourself.
2007-05-05 07:24:54 · answer #2 · answered by missaubren 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How do you know he was hitting on her if you where at work? If you're sure this is the case, then yes. If he's hitting on ANYONE else, let alone your daughter, than he's not worth your time.
Talk to him, get his side of the story, but make sure you don't put your daughter off side. You've been put into a difficult position where it's his word against his. If he's willing to hurt you by hitting on another woman, then he can't care for you all that much. And if it's your daughter he's hitting on, then it's going to be very hard to trust him again with the woman he was hitting on always around.
2007-05-05 07:23:51 · answer #3 · answered by bnr_conspiracies 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hell ****** yeah, that's a warning signal. This is the type of story you hear on America's Most Wanted. The man becomes furious at the daughter's allegations and the mother breaking up with him, and starts to show more of a side you didn't think he had. Then he comes back and kills everyone. These things happen all the time. I'd take it serious if I were you.
2007-05-05 07:20:26 · answer #4 · answered by Ill Will 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Would you want the man who your mother was married to hitting on you when you were young? I would put some serious thought into it before leaving or divorcing. Go over the pros and cons . Try having a talk about it with him. Seek guidance or council at a church or or somewhere.
2007-05-05 07:24:18 · answer #5 · answered by workinprogress 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can't see how you'd be able to get over the fact that he's shown an interest in your daughter - who he should see by now as his stepdaughter at the very least - he's known her since she was 12 years old.
Give him the Spanish Archer - El Bow
2007-05-05 07:18:22 · answer #6 · answered by Nexus6 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes. If he hit her he will hit you to. There is no excuse for anyone to lay there hands on another unless they are defending themselves. If you have been with him for 9 years then he had a hand in help raise her. Like a daughter as it were. I would get rid of him but that is my opinion. Good Luck..
2007-05-05 07:20:49 · answer #7 · answered by Donna 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You better believe it! How can you trust a man that would hit on your daughter when you arn't around? How weird and hurt your daughter must be! I am sure she hated like nuts to tell you what he did. You should drop this idiot. Next time he may not stop at hitting on her. He sounds like a creep and I would not trust him period.
2007-05-05 07:17:56 · answer #8 · answered by Stefbear 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Listen to both sides first. Try to be sensitive and weigh it sensibly. Don't rush judgement . You live with him for many years, you knew him at least why he did it to your daughter. Is he responsible and fatherly to her? If he is abusive to you and to her, why stay with him? If he is a good man....communication is needed and deserve another chance. Talk to your daughter also. Give her your time too. She needs guidance and moral support from you. Don't just leave her in one corner , she still needs your motherly care.
2007-05-05 07:27:58 · answer #9 · answered by amy n 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cami, this is very simple. If you have been together this long, he has been having sexual thoughts about your daughter WAY before now. If that doesn't give you a sick feeling in your stomach, nothing will. You are supposed to protect your daughter from people like him, not invite them in...Kes
2007-05-05 07:22:38 · answer #10 · answered by Kes 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Oh my God! You have to ask? Where is your self respect?What about respect for your daughter?This ***hole has been w/you since she was 12.Was he scoping her out then?Don't be afraid to be w/out this pig(after 9yrs.).If he hit on your daughter,he's hit on other females as well.Looks like he'd cheat,if given the opportunity.Respect yourself and kick him to the curb.
2007-05-05 07:43:59 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋