There's this girl that i really like. She makes me crazy and i can't think of a good way to ask her out. We slept together once before on a drunken night and it we both just kinda blew it off the next day. But she took my virginity that night and it was very emotional and i began to cry afterwards. Since she took my virginity i have become emotionally attached to her. And i am in love with her. We are real good friends and hang out all the time. But its hard for me to ask her out because she is a lesbian. (we were extrememly drunk when we had sex) But i feel that she really wants to be with me.
How do i approach her about this?
2007-05-04 23:16:34 · 14 answers · asked by Scottie"T" 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
First off Scotty, i think you and this girl had a real moment together. Even though she was drunk she knew what she was doing....she wanted salami and you were there to give it to her. I would take this as a sign from above..Definitely talk to her about the experience and let her know that you think you could take care of her and provide her more than her gf can. Be prepared to be rejected at first or at least stared at for a minute but be prepared to have her run into your arms and rejoice in the feeling of changing a gay female to a straight female...hopefully she is good looking though..not a bull dyke. but i know how you like your ladies rough so i am guessing she is a bull dyke, but hey, love is love...good luck and make sure she treats your rosebud right...
2007-05-04 23:23:16 · answer #1 · answered by Scotty_J 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In times like this, you can only turn to fact, history and previous experience for the answer. So, let's look at this situation as compared to real world situations and circumstances.
In Episode IV: A New Hope, we all learn to hate Darth Vader. Why? Because he has gone to the Dark Side. We don't understand why and we don't know that he used to be one of the good guys, we just know that he is very powerful and that he uses his power for evil.
Now, fast forward to Episode VI: Return of the Jedi. He is still on the Dark Side, but somewhere inside, there is still good. The epitome of evil does in fact redeem himself, Darth Vader is no more, and Anakin Skywalker gets to look his son in the eye before becoming one with The Force.
So, don't give up. You too can win and turn this girl away from the dark side. Make sure you don't get her to kill her gf (the Emperor,) in the process.
“Do or do not... there is no try.”
"But beware. Anger, fear, aggression. The dark side are they. Once you start down the dark path, forever will it dominate your destiny."
2007-05-05 09:38:51 · answer #2 · answered by Scotty F 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You simply ask her if she would join you for dinner. She is bi-sexual if she slept with you and you are a male. A true lesbian prefers all women. Women know how to please women which creates the attraction. I understand why Lesbians prefer each other. I myself love oral sex and love to perform oral sex on a woman..Understand that she loves what a women can do for her and accept that. Explain how you feel off to the side some where. Tell her you understand her need to be with other women and ask her out for a drink. If she refuses ,then you can bet she is not interested in anything other than friendship. Move on
2007-05-05 06:26:23 · answer #3 · answered by kbinmaine 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You must remain relaxed in this. Just ask her out, and drop the line sometime in the evening that you'd like to repeat that drunken sex, only this time sober, and see what her reaction is, She may actually be bi-sexual, which is a step in the right direction for you.
Don't , for pity's sake, tell her she was your first. That will kill it dead!
2007-05-05 06:25:00 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just have to ask her and tell her how you feel. If she feels the same way maybe you will work something out. Maybe she is Bi or if shes a Lesbian mabye she is willing to try to change to be with you. Dont let people fool you if you try you can change ANYTHING even your sexual orientation. Nothing is impossible.
2007-05-05 06:19:59 · answer #5 · answered by SS4 Elby 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Scottie-----------researchers have found during sex some element is released in the brain that causes these attachments such as what you are experiencing-----------my advice is to try to find a nice girl for a lifetime of happiness---------perhaps this girl is not really gay after all----------if she is move on to a new one.
2007-05-05 06:21:38 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry bud, it won't work. She worships the vajajay. Not your peen. She did you a favor once. It won't happen again. Don't expect her to be "extremely drunk" and let you have her way with her in the future and forget her real desires. And they're not you.
2007-05-05 06:22:16 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like a tough situation, dude. If she's a lesbian I don't know what you can do other than try to make her straight again.
2007-05-05 06:19:29 · answer #8 · answered by Adel 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first off what dose her GF look like? if she is hot then you should ask both of them out. if she is butch then.. well you might have trouble getting past the dildo she uses on your girl. so my advice is get her drunk and again and go for it.
Dick J
2007-05-05 07:08:58 · answer #9 · answered by Dick Jones 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you ever had sex with anyone else? If not, you need to that way you can determine if you care for her or if you just confuse sex with love.
2007-05-05 07:07:04 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋