This girl that i am in love with was my classmate,we both attended the same school and we were both in the same class.The problem is that,I get butterflies in my stomach whenever i set an eye on this girl and this few days as we were about to complete school,I found out that this girl has been too close to me that,I realise how much i am in love with her but the problem is that.I dont know how to go about it and cant seem to find the way to tell her how much i am feeling for her,I know that she is feeling the same way because i have the feeling of that and she comes in to visit me every saturdays.I really love this girl and I am kinda shy to tell her,can anybody tell me the direction i can go to tell her that I love her without getting her upset ?
2007-05-04 23:10:20 · 12 answers · asked by Romeo S 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Show her don't tell her.
Take it how you want it.
2007-05-04 23:13:55 · answer #1 · answered by 123 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Invite her out to lunch or dinner, you pay for everything. Buy her chocs or flowers, and put on the card will you be my sweetheart etc. I know it sounds soppy but girls go for that sort of thing. Show her you care, be a gent. Pull the seat out for her open doors let her go first etc little things like that, get her attention, ask her how she's getting on at school with her lessons, exams etc then once you have started a conversation, then say I have always admired you and I think You would make me the happiest guy in the world if you would say you would be my girl or some thing like that.
AGONY UNCLE
2007-05-05 06:22:03 · answer #2 · answered by coofooman 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there are ways to let the girl know without being stalkerish.start simple even if you don't need help in the class its time to pretend your lost on a subject that would be a great opportunity to feel her out and NOT up.women appreciate direct sincere compliments just watch coming on strong, if you says your eyes are beautiful in that shirt and she's seems creeped out say yeah they remind me of my sisters and move on.
2007-05-05 06:19:28 · answer #3 · answered by blkmgikwmn 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
during my school days i also had suffered the same problem.i was free to talk with any girls but to that girl i couldnt say.bcoz i fear i may lose her .she might took me only as a friend.iam the loser.but u dont be one.you take her in a lonely place give her one red rose and express ur feeling .tell her how much u .love her.common u can do it
2007-05-05 06:20:12 · answer #4 · answered by pirsa363 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you tell a girl that you love her, why would she get upset? by her actions, it seems to me like she likes you too...just tell her how you feel about her and maybe she'll tell you that she feels the same way too. also, show her how you feel by your actions...do sweet things that other guys wouldnt do if they werent in love with her. tell her, and show it.
2007-05-05 06:17:01 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love is action. You are nice to her. You do good things to her. Be sensitve to her feelings. Show that she is special to you. Action means a thousand words.
2007-05-05 06:18:35 · answer #6 · answered by Weerapat P. 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go ahead and give her some red roses if she accept it tell her that u love her
2007-05-05 06:14:40 · answer #7 · answered by nona 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get close to her, i mean very close. Send her some gift and send your love message with it.
2007-05-05 06:17:22 · answer #8 · answered by I am rock 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just say it. Believe me if she loves you it will be the happiest day of your life.
2007-05-05 06:16:17 · answer #9 · answered by luckford2004 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how about doing some "friend" things together first, going to the zoo, botanical gardens etc. then when you get a feel for how she feels about you......tell her how you feel.
2007-05-05 06:13:57 · answer #10 · answered by Sam h 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dude1 if you tell her you love her she is not going to get upset... she may not recipicate but it will still flatter her! JUST DO IT!
2007-05-05 06:15:08 · answer #11 · answered by maddogcrog 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋