why do men always seem to like you, give you comments say that they care about you until you sleep with them, then you dont get anything after that. They act like they dnt know you infront of there mayes and ignore your messages uuntil next time they feel like se*?
2007-05-04 22:46:14 · 44 answers · asked by lilmiss4evr 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
shortest way to sex, while watching the match on tv
2007-05-04 22:48:35 · answer #1 · answered by Splishy 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Actions speak louder than words, any day.
If you want to be sure that someone likes you or is interested in more than what they can get (goes for gals as well), you'll see it in their behaviour, the little things that cannot be faked.
As for them phoning you when they want something, how about showing some dignity the next time and (a) don't answer the phone (b) if you do answer the phone, tell them you can't meet as you are preparing to go on a hot date (c)tell them to leave you alone as you were only interested in a shag and could they stop calling - that will leave their jaw hanging open (d)just make it clear that you are not into one night stands, they can get their jollies elsewhere (e) just don't sleep with them in the first place. You might feel a bit frustrated, but you'll still have your pride the morning after.
2007-05-05 00:22:46 · answer #2 · answered by Snake Eyes 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yup, that's true! Look, men are here on this earth for one thing and that's to procreate, that's it!!
My father gave me some really gr8 advise when i was 15 year old. I didn't really know what he meant till i grew up and then i realised he was right.
He said while sitting down at dinner...
Honey, remember this, if it's the only thing your ever remember me saying to you, make this the one you remember.
There are men out there in the world that will tell you you're the most beautiful girl in the world. They will even buy you beautiful gifts and say the most beautiful things to you to make you fall for them. But remember, he said, they are doing this only for one thing and that's to get your peal. Don't throw your peals at swine he said, because they are thieves and will disregard you once they have it.
Test all men!! keep your pants up and tightly fastened till they prove to you, (and that takes time and a lot of effort), that they are sincere.
2007-05-04 23:03:09 · answer #3 · answered by Purity 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me more like you are emotionally invested and they are not. When that happens you read into his words and actions what it would mean if you did or said it which is vastly different than it means for him.
It's time to take a step back from the dating and the sex and look at how the men around you react (honestly!!) to what the women in their lives do.
Us gals are emotional creatures and men are physical creatures. Until we reach a level of understanding of each other we really can't 'meet in the middle'.
As for him only calling back when he wants some it sounds like your actions or words have shown him he can get some if he just gives you a little attention. Have you been easy to get? A guy just looking for a little will NOT waste his time on a gal he has to work for because there are so many that are amenable to a casual thing.
Good luck, HTH
2007-05-04 22:51:32 · answer #4 · answered by Star 5 · 3⤊ 1⤋
Not all true like these hooligans are saying. While many men are rude and snobs etc etc... There are good guys out there that do everything for their woman. These guys might fall into the miniority but they do exist and knowing the many friends and girlfriends i have had, Women have many more senses then guys... and shouldnt let their guard down until they know the peep they are with is truly Sympathtic to them and isnt an A-hole. I understand your situation, as i have many friends like that... but like i always told myself.. Good Guys DO Come first... they just need to meet a gal that takes them in for the right reasons.
2007-05-04 22:54:14 · answer #5 · answered by Mr_Jigglesworth 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I'm so sorry to hear they hurt u like that. Stay away from those kind of guys. People say u should make sure u get to know eachother well before having se*. Delay it so it's made clear ur doing it because u like eachother not just for the sake of it.
2007-05-04 22:52:22 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
i feel totally insulted by your question! yes there are men out there that do that? but there is also alot of women out there that do the very same thing? the difference is the men get called a jack the lad! and the women get called a dirty s**g! for this i believe women are unjustly treated, but it goes on between both sex's because its human nature and has gone on for hundreds of yrs an will carry on doing so,
If you have been treated this way recently then i feel for you, but please don't categorise all us men as total B*****DS as were not all like it .
2007-05-04 23:47:41 · answer #7 · answered by Phil B 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hi hunny
I'm afraid that's just how men are. They will do anything to get you into bed and most of them don't give a damn about your feelings.
So you need to raise the bar. Don't take any of this from them. Try to slow things down a little, hold off the intimacy and just spend time getting to know them. Make it clear that you're not just out for sex. Let them do the running, don't ever chase after them. Remember, they need you, not the other way round.
2007-05-04 22:54:27 · answer #8 · answered by ~ Arwen ~ 3 · 2⤊ 2⤋
Its their game....and it always works...once they've had you, the chase is no longer there so they move onto their next target...I beleive its part of their nature, im not saying all men are like that, just quite alot of them..plus if it works then why give more, i mean if a woman is willing to give it up even wen youve been ignoring her, then i wouldnt put in the work either...
2007-05-04 22:59:08 · answer #9 · answered by ladee_in_luv 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
because men think they are superior to women and they have to act the stud. being an asshole becomes naturally to most men but they are not all like that. if you think they are like that then you shouldn't have sex with them you should make them wait until you are convinced that they will stick around. don't be too eager to have something serious too soon, hold back and let them run after you . tease them, use them and abuse them exactly how they do to women. just don't go too far, as i say some men can be decent, not many, but a few. good luck and keep smiling lol xxx
2007-05-04 22:59:04 · answer #10 · answered by tracey 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Because they feel they've gotten the prize and it's time to move on. It's how we're wired... and maybe to them, it's better the first time than it is the second time.
Don't worry. We're not all like this. I haven't ever gotten it (in 18 years) and my girl and I have been together for 3 months. I genuinely love her and care about her, and even after we'd done the whuppity, I still would love her and care about her. I love her so much...
2007-05-04 22:50:31 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 1⤋