my mother died a few days ago she is now dead and buried?

Question

it was sudden but i would like to see her again i have waited but she hasnt came will she?

she was a catholic and really believed

thanks to you all but its hard i loved her to bits why did god take her

thankyou all

Answer 1

Even if you don't actually "see" her, she is never far away from you as long as you keep her alive in your memory.
You can speak to her anywhere & anytime you wish.
Sorry for your loss.

Answer 2

Sorry to hear about the passing of your mother..In 2000 my dad died of terminal leukemia in 4 months after being diagnosed..it will take a good 6 months to get over the loss of a loved one. There will be days where you think of your mom and you will cry ,wishing if only I had said this or done that and if only she could see what's happening now with me . It sounds like you had a good relationship with her , Thank the Lord for that,and for the mother he had given you . To answer your question in Luke 16:26 " And beside all this ,between us and you there is a great gulf fixed:so that they which would pass from hence to you cannot, neither can they pass to us. that would come from thence ". Tomorrow is not guaranteed .It takes a shock now and then to remind us LIFE IS PRECIOUS !! Take Care

Answer 3

First of all, I would like to extend my profound sympathy to you for the death of your mother. My mother died suddenly also, but it has been a year-and-a-half and I have had some time to heal. Still, it is very painful to lose a mother. I wish I could see my mother again as well. I understand those feelings. I still think at times that I will see her at family gatherings or that I will hear her voice again, but then reality sinks in and I remember that I won't hear or see her anymore. I believe my mom is in Heaven and I will see her again someday when I die.

As for this time on earth, I wouldn't wait for your mother to show up. You will only be disappointed because she simply can't show up. Her love is real and everlasting however, and she will always be alive as long as you keep her love and her memories alive in your heart. There is a website that I discovered that was comforting to me a while ago. It is http://www.motherlessmothers.com/main/. I would encourage you to check it out. It is designed for women of all ages to share stories, read what others say, and encourage one another because they have all lost their mother. I believe it will help you to know that others understand your pain. I will be praying that God will help you through this difficult time. Just remember that there is no right or wrong way to grieve and there is no timetable. Do what you have to do for you in order to be able to function in life and be happy.

God bless you.

Answer 4

Maybe you will have a dream or vision, or vistation of some kind

That does happen it has happened to me before

My mother has been gone now for 2 months and I wanted that also

I think that God gave me such a spirtual awareness at the time that he must think what he has done for me was enough and just to trust him.............

I still feel the sadness of not seeing her smiling face again

He showed me the doors of heaven and they had engravings all over them maybe the names of the saints gone before

I saw an angel open the doors they were so hugh! Like the angel was very small compared to the gates

a day later I saw the angel proceed to come outside the gate and I knew that it was to come and get my mom

Her death was very sudden and we only had a week with her and we did not know that she would go that fast

she had told her nurse that she was going away to a beautiful city and would she miss her

she thought we were taking her on a vacation and then after she had said it again and again she knew she meant she was going home

The spirit of God told me a year before that someone would go home in March

It didn't happen that March and I never miss it

Now looking back I can see that he meant 1 year later in March


She went home on March 1st 2007 1 day before here Birthay on the 2nd she would be 84

At the time of her leaving he told me 8:00

I was almost afraid if I didn't see her that night she would be gone

She was there the next day and

I heard Jesus say as I was in the heart of the earth three days so shall it be

that was so faint that I wondered and questioned it in my heart


we are not always aware of the things he tells us so we let doubt come in, yet at 8:oo P.M. each night I was there with her

She went to be with Jesus at 8:06 P.M

She left and her heart beat once more as we prayed for her journey to Jesus

and home then my brother said Mom it's ok, you love our prayers but you can go home now and see Pappa and Mamma and uncle Foy and all your loved ones waiting for you, then she left

She hung on to our prayers and we prayed and sung all her songs she had sung all her life, she sung the gospel in song and we wanted her to stay, it was her time to go

Each day I say I love you Mom I'm going to miss you...........

God Bless you is my prayer and I do hope that something I have said will give you peace............

May he wrap his loving arms around you at this time and may he love you as you have never been loved..........................

Answer 5

I am so sorry. Big hug. Its hard I know. Keep her in your thoughts...Have happy memories of her. Talk to her and think that she has no more worries...no more pain and she is watching over you all the time. Remember always how she loved you...how she cared for you and how she waited for you to come home from school and work having nice hot meals for you.Remember her for the woman that she was. Don.t wait to see her...let her carry on with her journey dont hold her back.You will meet again some day and you will have a lovely reunion. Big hug.

Answer 6

It is so difficult when someone is taken suddenly both for the people behind and I think for the person that had no warning. Think, would your mum want you to be in such a state, celebrate the times you had, a lot of people will never have known what that was like. Give yourself time and you and your mum will come out the other side. All the best.

Answer 7

I'm really sorry about the loss of your mother
God is the onw wqho knows what happens when we die he is the oone who truly can tell us this information, and he has done so in hus Written Word the Bible. Here is what the Bible says:"As the (beast)dies, so the(man dies; and they all have but one spirit.....All are going to one place.They have all comer from the dust, and they are all returning to the dust--to nonexistance---when they die.
We cease to exist when we die. But that does not mean that everything is finished. The faithful man Job knew that he would go to the grave(Sheol) when he died. But listen to his prayer to God:"O that in Shoel you would conceal me, that you would keep me secret until your anger turns back, that you would set a time limit for me and remember me! If an able bodied man dies can he live again?...You will call, and I myself will answer you."(Job14:13-15)
Job believed that if he was faithful until death, he would be remembered by God and resurrected. This was the belief of all of God's servants in ancient times. Jesus himself confirmed this hope when he said:"The hour is coming in which all those in the memorial tombs will hear his voiceand come out, those who did good things to a resurrection of life, those who did vile things to a resurrection of judgement."(John5:28,29).
Is all of this just a dream?No, it is God's promise. In the Bible we read:"I heard a loud voice from the throne say:Look! The tent of God is with mankind, and he will reside with them, and they will be his peoples. And God will wipe out every tear from their eyes, and death will be no more. The former things have passed away."(Revelation21:3,4)
Do you believe these words? You should.God's word always comes true(Isaiah55:11) I urge you to learn more about God's purposes for mankind. And how you can see your Mother alive and well again. She will not come now because the time of the resurrection of all those who are in the graves has not come yet, but you can be there to see your Mother come back to life again, by learning about the Purposes that God has for mankind and how he will bring those purposes to completion soon (John17:3)It is hard for you right now because you miss her but think how wonderful it will be to see her again as if she never lefty at all, by the way God did not take her he does not do that.

Answer 8

I am very very sorry for your loss. She will be beside you allways. You only have to think the word mum and she's there. Sometimes they don't come back for us to see, but they will do something like move an object or you smell a certain smell or you feel them when you enter a room. Your mum might do one of theses things instead. Keep your eyes open for any sign like that. If you are scared of spiritual things, they wont come to you so as not to frighten you. As silly as that may sound. I hope your pain eases soon. Time passes but never heals. I hope this helps. Blessed be.

Answer 9

Strange question, but I will read between the lines. My mother died about 3 1/2 years ago. About 9 months after she died, I was taking a shower and a piano music started running through my head...I knew the tune, but couldn't place it...I finally realize it was a piece my mother used to play on the piano when I was a kid.."teddybear's picnic." I knew full well it was my mom saying everything was fine, she was happy, and have a great life, we would meet again. I have not grieved for my mom since. good luck

Answer 10

My mum made a poem for my Nana's funeral, however I can't quite remember how it goes. One line is something like "God looked around his garden, and saw your saddened face. He said to Jesus "I'll take her" and brought you to his place". The main point i'm trying to make is that your mum is now in a better place. God took her because he needed an angel like your mum to help him do his work. I hope you get through this, try not to think about her too much. Im sure she's having a great time in heaven, and she would be upset to see you upset. Live your life to the full and try your best to be happy, its what she would've loved. xx

Answer 11

My condolences on your loss. My mother died two years ago and it still feels every bit as fresh to me as the day it happened. As an atheist I don't believe in the afterlife. Just know that she is still alive in your dreams and in all your memories of her. Take comfort in knowing her pain and suffering is over now.