I have anxiety feelings lately and im not sure why. Has anyone ever experienced anxiety from falling in love? When you fell in love did you have intense anxiety feelings? I think thats why im feeling anxiety, because im actually falling in love. Can anyone relate?
2007-05-04 19:16:57 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Mental Health
well, of course hon. you're putting yourself out there.. and in your mind you're thinking
'uh oh.. what if i do this wrong?'
'what will they think if blahablha'
it's basically like.. that is love. to put it simply. it's cute.. that's love.
you just need to throw your head back and laugh.. and if the person you're falling in love with doesn't accept you the way you are.. then they don't deserve to be with you..
so loosen up, laugh, and be yourself
enjoy the ride!
2007-05-04 19:20:38 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can only answer from my experience... I think that those feelings of anxiety can come from several different places and only you can determine exactly where they are coming from.
1. Losing Control: I think that really, truly, falling in love involves being completely vulnerable to someone and in many cases that is REALLY scary...anxiety is not far behind. Just don't let that anxiety blind you and keep you from moving forward in your relationship or evaluating your situation.
2. Sometimes there is a tiny voice wayyyyyy back in your brain that is saying that this relationship is wrong for some reason. Take a few steps back and look at the path your relationship has taken so far. Is there anything that bothers you about it? Do you see any little red flags popping up?
Either way, it's important to know who it is that you are falling in love with. You also need to love yourself, of course!
Good luck and God bless!!
2007-05-05 02:28:17 · answer #2 · answered by shanadola1 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Heh, I'm going through the exact same feeling right now. I feel silly because I'm very young but yes I deal with anxiety over it. I stress badly. So, don't worry about it, it goes hand and hand with love.
2007-05-05 04:44:06 · answer #3 · answered by Hollie Y 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be careful with that. yes that has happened to me as well. then if it turns out that the other person does not like you or relationship did not work out then you will go through depression. I would talk to someone about this
2007-05-05 02:21:27 · answer #4 · answered by Kristenite’s Back! 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Normal. Satus quo for being in love. Love messes up everything but it's wonderful while it lasts.
2007-05-05 02:24:30 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, i think that thats very possible =]
it might actually just be love?
2007-05-05 02:28:23 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
LOL!!!!
2007-05-05 02:20:13 · answer #7 · answered by sun_beam61 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋