2007-05-04 18:59:20 · 23 answers · asked by peter2156 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
ohh im sorry to hear that,
but its the will of God that you must carry on.
We all have our fixed time to die,only God knows this
muslim!
2007-05-04 19:10:51 · answer #1 · answered by Jo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Was your only mission in life to be your wife's husband? I don't think so. You are still the head of your family, however many are left. To carry on those values, to teach the younger generations, to see another sunrise, to feel, to breathe, to say I'm here for another day what can I do to change my world; these are only a few reasons why you are still alive.
2007-05-05 02:12:03 · answer #2 · answered by whats.the.deal 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are still alive because it was not your time. There is still more for you to do, or someone for you to be with. Perhaps you were ment to change the life of someone you havent met yet. So many people see death as a punishment. That someone was taken from them, or that someone was punished by dying. Remember that "life is pain". We live in this world, but to be dead is a gift. We no longer suffer from sickness, or other people. Perhaps she was taken to spare her a pain that was coming. Just remember to stay strong. You will see her agian someday!
2007-05-05 02:10:07 · answer #3 · answered by anamaradancer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do you think you are still alive for? Are you seeking or in Christ? Do you want to be?
If the answer is 'no' then I have no clue whatsoever to tell you. You are new and have no history, what am I supposed to do?
If you are having terrible times, e-mail me and give a return address. You can get a Yahoo email for free.
So my hand is out if you want to take it. I'll help you if you want it.
2007-05-05 02:18:23 · answer #4 · answered by Christian Sinner 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I feel good to know that you still love your wife in today's western lifestyle.
You are feeling lonely which is natural but remember those moments when both of you had a wonderful time to share and enjoy. Remember those small happiest moments in the time of grief,bad luck etc.
Spiritually speaking then all of us are given certain years to live on this earth. We are here with our goals/aims and once done we die. You remain in touch with your children who are a part of you and your wife. Your wife lives through them. Your children may be looking like her or you or their natures be same as you or your wife.
Devote your time to god in whichever religion you have belief. In Hinduism we meet people as per our many births previous relationships and will contine to meet in the next births to come. Sometimes we meet persons because we have to return their goodness or vice versa to them which we had got from them in any of the past births.
So your wife is in your memories and Iam sure that she too will be missing you whereever she is. Life is tough and try to keep yourself busy .
Get new hobby or meet people across your age. Join your age club groups etc
Best of Luck . Yes read philosophical books to get strong will power.
2007-05-05 02:41:00 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all I am so sorry to hear about your wife. I pray that God gives you peace and comfort at this time, and that He will reveal to you His purpose for the rest of your life on this earth. He has one!! He knew you long before the creation of the world. And your days are numbered. What He has purposed for you to do was planned then as well. May you look to our God for encouragement, peace, and guidance. God bless you
2007-05-05 02:12:33 · answer #6 · answered by AdoreHim 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I believe that you are still alive because you still have much to offer the world, and your mission on this earth is not yet completed. Your experience in your grief could one day benefit someone who feels that they can no longer go on. You may be the one who gives them hope to continue on their difficult path.
2007-05-05 02:08:25 · answer #7 · answered by Zan 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Because she had cancer and you don't. It's as simple as that. Since you are alive, the best thing to do is live, enjoy life, and experience it to the fullest. Isn't that what she would have you do?
2007-05-05 02:04:47 · answer #8 · answered by squeezie_1999 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Because this is God's plan......believe me, I know its hard to lose a loved one, esp. a spouse, but its not like God didn't see this coming, He is in control. If you want, I can pray for you. I know you don't know me, but the more prayer the better! I bet your wife would want you to live life to the fullest, and be happy until you see her again in heaven : ) I'm sorry for your loss.
2007-05-05 02:11:48 · answer #9 · answered by Ariel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe the question is why was i lucky to have a wife and love that left a hole and how can i Honor that and share with others the joy that relationship gave maybe you were left to support your family emotionally...we never no the why but we can remember the when it was good
your wife would not have wished unhappiness on you remember the good....thoughts with you
2007-05-05 02:10:33 · answer #10 · answered by Donela P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your time didn't come yet.. That's it. You've relieved your wife from great pain and harsh if you passed before her, she's sure in peace now as she knows that you're alive and healthy.
2007-05-05 02:12:06 · answer #11 · answered by Lawrence of Arabia 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋