I'm in a wheel chair, I want to ask a girl to prom, she'll probably say no because... should I ask anyway?

Question

I dont want her to go if she feels sorry for me but i dont want herto be imbarrassed being wiht me.

Answer 1

DOn't worry being in a wheelchair is a normal thing. :) If you would want to know go to that girl and ask her out.. if you want you can ask her to tell the truth if she really wants to or not, because that girl might like you too you never know..
Hope it helps!
Kevin

Answer 2

Nothing ventured nothing gained. Ask. Who cares why she goes if she goes? Even if she only goes because she feels sorry for you, you have the opportunity to change that when she finds out how much fun you are to be with.

You are a guy. It is perfectly acceptable for guys to use any means, both fair and unfair to get a girl to go out with him. It is known as the man-law.

Once you get her to the prom, be charming and Witty and attentive. Most guys your age are dopey and end up talking sports with each other while the girls are bored.

I am proud to say that I attended six proms and never went to my own. I was invited by six lovely girls to be their escort. I was just a regular looking guy, no great athlete or anything but I was and still am a charmer.

I always made women feel pretty and acted gentlemanly. Making a little fuss over her once in a while. Never leaving her unattended etc.

I was really good at it. It will work for you, too.
With your disability, you just have to compensate by being charming and making women feel glad to be around you.

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Answer 3

Ask someone. Who knows they might say yes. Then you'd have to worry about getting the right color tux, etc. Ask someone who you are comfortable with. And if she accepts then that means that she wants to go. Want to hear embarassing? I spent $500 on a prom dress and some other girl walked in with the same dress on. I hope you go and have a great time.

Answer 4

there's nothing wrong with being in a wheelchair. you'll never know if she would or wouldn't go, if you don't ask. any answer is better than no answer. i'd just ask her to be honest with you. i realize that some people feel sorry for others who are chair bound, but you know, she could be really interested in you and she's too shy to ask you also. best of luck and i hope you get your girl! :)

Answer 5

Jesus wants you to be healed.That's one of the reasons why He came and died.All you have to do is ask Him to come live in your heart.It may take time for Him to heal you don't give up.He's healed me from so many things.I used to have a really bad back and sometimes it would go out and I couldn't walk for days it's been years since that's happened.I'm not saying that's as bad as what you're going thru but I'm saying Jesus will heal you.

Answer 6

It's likely that she will reject you because you're handicapped. But you should ask anyway. You will never know until you try, and you can not let your disability keep you from living your life to its full potential. One day you will be surprised at what just trying even though you are handicapped will get you.

Answer 7

yes go ahead. I hope she says yes. sorry to hear that your in a wheelchair. good luck man im pulling for u. have a nice day

Answer 8

surely you want to ask her cause she's a good/nice person. so, ask her! you don't know the answer if you don't try! why would she be embarrassed? most likely that will not be the case! i know it's hard to ask, but i understand your anxiety, but my feelings are that it's not all that you're thinking.

Answer 9

Yes I think you should ask, and you can do other stuff besides dance! Just chill

Answer 10

Maybe you try Devid... But don't expect to much... You know girls...

But I hope for the best...

peace.