well not a teacher but a dean... okay, so it's kind of a long story, these two boys got into a fight and I kinda got involved by myspace.. they got suspended had to have a conferance with the dean and when one of the boy and mom were having the convo the dean was like [referring to me] "that little girl is trouble, stay away from her... she also has a gender problem, one minute she wants to be a girl the next she wants to be a boy" .. "she's always unsupervised out on the streets" ... "the house you been going over could be a drug house" and he told me errything she said bout me and it was all so rude.
see, me and this dean are REALLY REALLY close so it hurts for her to say these things..
should I go to the principle about this? my mom is really mad.
2007-05-04 15:25:44 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Grade-Schooler
listen, it WASNT made up.. its the truth. He wouldn't lie about this jesus..
2007-05-04 15:49:28 · update #1
another thing is, I need to tell the principal cuz i might be getting kicked out of here and this will prolly save me ..
2007-05-04 15:51:05 · update #2
Sounds like you are really close with the dean because you are a troubled kid. However, the dean has no business discussing you with others. She should be reported to the principal and the school board.
2007-05-04 15:35:32 · answer #1 · answered by lcmcpa 7 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Ok, as a teacher, I know that students tend to over exaggerate. The dean may have said to stay away from you and that you might not be the best fit for him as a friend, but he probably didn't say anything about a lack of supervision, a drug house, a gender problem, or anything like that. Those were more than likely your friend's MOTHER's words and the dean merely nodded along to be sympathetic, not to agree.
The dean may or may not have said those things, but the first step would be to go and talk to the dean about it and state your concern that what you shared in confidence with the dean was meant to be private and that you are really upset that it was said. Chances are, the dean will call you and your friend into the office and you'll find that your friend over exaggerated. Don't get the principal involved unless the dean won't cooperate. And, if that's the case, YOU don't contact your principal, you need to have your mom do it.
2007-05-04 17:47:58 · answer #2 · answered by Sit'nTeach'nNanny 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If u are really,really close then u should go to the dean w/ your mother and tell her how u feel about what she said. Also if it not true let her know, your mother should have went to the school and talked with this dean and the principle. I would get it all cleared up and stop associating with the dean. Adults are wrong to( some need a reality check).
2007-05-04 15:42:03 · answer #3 · answered by Ms Hot Chocolate 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep in mind from whom you heard this version. Was the boy involved trying to hurt you by telling you something that was an exagerration or an outright lie? Are the things she supposedly said about you true?
You should go to the dean and discuss what you heard. If she did say things like that, then by all means go with your mom and have a talk with the principal.
2007-05-04 15:36:11 · answer #4 · answered by Patsy A 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When the boys got in a fight, you should have STAYED OUT OF IT on your Myspace. It was not your fight and none of your business.
Who told you the Dean said all that about you?
Did the boy tell you that?
Was your mom there and she told you that?
Were YOU there and she said it in front of you?
If you were not there, you need to talk to the Dean and tell her what you've been told and ASK her if she really said that.
You might have been told something erroneous and you need to ask before you get all bent out of shape.
It sounds like you need to deal with some things and get your life in order, girl.
2007-05-04 15:36:14 · answer #5 · answered by Nedra E 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you need to confront both the Dean and the person who told you this because this way you will know who is lying, also have your mom present. If the Dean did say those things about you then you should let the principle know. you have your mom as witness to what happened. If she did say those things you know she's a two face, and you should keep distance from her.
2007-05-04 16:15:19 · answer #6 · answered by imlajefa 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If u didnt hear this from the dean yourself, this could all just be made up by the fighting boys.
It is best not to make a mountain out of a mole hill.
Talk is cheap, get wise and mature.
2007-05-04 15:36:19 · answer #7 · answered by sunflare63 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay out of other people's business on myspace - that thing is a hot bed of trouble.
PS you dont know for sure the Dean said any of this - you are getting this from a kid who is mad at you.
2007-05-04 23:53:23 · answer #8 · answered by jillmarie2000 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you and your Mom should make an appointment to go together to the principal. I would also speak to the Dean and tell her how hurt you are. If you can't say it out loud to her write a note and have your Mom sign it as well. Bless you, hope all goes well.
2007-05-04 17:43:42 · answer #9 · answered by winkcat 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is betrayal. Try not to be so close to staff members in your school because the things you say though you think they are your friend may be used against you. Besides, familiarity breeds contempt. People pretend, especially older people. this is how the real world is. But if it wasn't said directly to you or in front of you try to ignore it. On second thought, your friend that heard it can be your witness and it would be a good idea to go with him and/or him mother and your mother to speak to the principal. Don't do it alone.
2007-05-04 15:43:05 · answer #10 · answered by L L 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋