2007-05-04 13:43:52 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ever fall in love with someone u know u shouldnt fall in love with but still fall in love with them?
2007-05-04 13:44:32 · update #1
How can we choose where the heart leads us?
(quote from the movie Cabaret)
2007-05-04 13:47:25 · answer #1 · answered by waia2000 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah u can choose who u fall in love with because of the way u two talk to each other. first become friends with a man and get to be friends with him for about 3 months before u can tell that he's the one.
2007-05-04 13:50:24 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes you can
if you have goals, core values that you seek in another and are honest to yourself about what you really seek in a person
if you "fall" in love with someone you really should be in love with ( example you ar e good person, and the other person is a low life drug smoking meth headed loser.. )
then you are not in love at all
you may think you are
and you lie to yourself that you are.. but at one point you realize what exactly it is that you got and then the deep regret sets in.. at that point shame kicks in and you find yourself digging in harder and saying to yourself, i can mke this work, i can change him, i see the potential..
when of course the shame prevents you from saying you lack good judgement skills, you lack ambition and self worth, you have no life goals.. and thus defend the poor choice you made.. as they way you see it failure here is a failure of yourself and life.. but those in bad relationship cannot see that they have allready failed, other can clearly see it, but false pride prevents you from listening proper.
this is why people can get sucked into cults.. and what not
oh sure the bad person may show you a ray of light here an there.. but in never quantifies the relationship.. you are just starved for any sort of affection you can get
so the parable of water seeks it own level is true
those with self worth and sucess seek likewise
those who do not have such attributes, pretty much get what's left over
2007-05-04 13:48:23 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No way I wish but a heart does what it wants to do there is this guy that has everything I am looking for I mean he makes me laugh dress nice smart he likes me but I just can't make myself like him he is just so goofy although nothing is wrong with that my heart just doesn't do what I tell it to do...
2007-05-04 13:49:24 · answer #4 · answered by Ablebaby 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My saying is "You can't choose who you fall in love with ... you can only pray that they love you back."
2007-05-04 13:50:18 · answer #5 · answered by Giggly Giraffe 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is no one you shouldn't fall in love w/
it's just that
w/some
you get a better return
on your investment
be the person you want to be w/
and you'll see him
hurrying through life
gets you nowhere
2007-05-04 13:51:02 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes my family hated him. But I married him anyway and they finally realized that he really wasnt so bad and they love him now. Some things have a way of working themselves out
2007-05-04 13:50:35 · answer #7 · answered by daisydownsouth 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
in my opion you can't help who you fall for I fell for a complete and utter ***** around two years ago and the damage she left still resides. we were together for a year and half. cause i was stupid enough to think we could work.
2007-05-04 13:48:47 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sometimes yes, sometimes no. love has such a grey area that a lot of questions concerning it can't really be answered.
2007-05-04 13:47:46 · answer #9 · answered by Jedi Knight 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ya! Thats why people have crushes! And also why I have the cutest boy friend!
2007-05-04 13:47:31 · answer #10 · answered by mdgdig 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋