My situation is my love life, I want to keep hanging on and waiting but I'm not sure, I'm scared of the outcome. What if it's not what I want, etc. I'm only human, I have doubts, which is normal.
I'm waiting for someone, but chances are maybe he'll never come back, but there's that gut feeling that I should be patient and hang on. Though there are rough times, I just get lost and hate the pain. I just want to know what's in store for me in the future of this all. Will he?
-Thank you.
2007-05-04 12:20:39 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
NO smart remarks.
2007-05-04 12:28:23 · update #1
To the other lady who just recently answered... he's not married, and I'm pretty sure.
2007-05-04 12:34:23 · update #2
Usually I recommend people listening to their gut feeling because that feeling is YOUR intuition. Intuition is what psychics use to make predictions. So in a way, YOU are psychic. Just don't talk yourself into believing something if it isn't true because it makes it less painful for you. I was estranged from my husband for 6 months and he called me again. The other woman wasn't what he wanted after all. That was 20 years ago and we are happy.
2007-05-04 12:26:50 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
Don't put your life on hold, or turn down opportunities for happiness to wait for him, if he has left you. Go on with your life, and look for empowering things to do with your self. Don't turn down opportunities to go out. If it is meant to be, then he will have a change of heart, and ask for another chance. There is nothing wrong with "Gut feelings" but sometimes we want something so badly, that it will seem that way, even if it isn't so.
To be honest, I don't see a future here.... But if there is one, he will be more likely to come back to someone that isn't hanging by the phone hoping he will call, he will be more likely to come back for someone who is happy in her own self, and enjoying a full life she can share with him.... But really, I see a new opportunity for you elsewhere, but it will not present itself to you until you allow yourself to be open to it, which you clearly are not at this time.
2007-05-04 13:23:43 · answer #2 · answered by beatlefan 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let go of him ! He is only using you and you will never be more than second best to him. You deserve way more than that, this guy is a looser all the way around. And your not the only one he has done this with or should I say to.
He's a game player, and when he gets bored he moves on.
He will never leave the woman he is with and the only way that relationship will end is if she ends it, and she has no clue what he's doing.
Did you know he is married ?
Move on to someone who will treat you right,this guy is not the right guy for you.
good luck and find Mr Right' you deserve better...
2007-05-04 12:32:22 · answer #3 · answered by Bridget 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
He doesn't deserve you and he doesn't care about you much, let him go and say your goodbyes to him, bury the ghost ... then if he should ever come back in the future you can see how you feel about him at the time... if it happens, don't waste yourself waiting.
2007-05-04 12:37:07 · answer #4 · answered by CHEESUS GROYST 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have adjusted my perspective and think that you will reap what you have sown for your own good/ just accept it ,good or bad , and Know that it is for your own good. happiness is acceptance of things as they are, for they are a teaching for your advancement.
2007-05-04 13:18:26 · answer #5 · answered by robertbobbybob 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
* there are no psychics
* even if he's coming back, his chances to get him are increased by you moving on RIGHT NOW.
2007-05-04 12:29:38 · answer #6 · answered by eldad9 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
He won't come back. An ex is an ex for a reason.
2007-05-04 12:23:24 · answer #7 · answered by csucdartgirl 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Hmmmm.....shhhhhhh......my crystal ball is speaking to me & it's telling me..........................................................wait 4 it............
YOU ACTUALLY THINK SOMEONES GOING TO GIVE YOU A REAL PSYCHIC ANSWER ON HERE!!!
2007-05-04 12:25:00 · answer #8 · answered by myusernameisbetterthanyours 5 · 1⤊ 2⤋