Okay there is this new girl in my class and she is ruining everything. All my friends want to be her friend instead of mine because she is pretty. And my exboyfriend was flirting with her and she was flirting back. What should I do about her flirting with my exboyfriend and stealing all my friends.
PS. I still like my exboyfriend a little.
2007-05-04 11:32:46 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
okay first of all, if all your friends want to be her friend "instead" of your friend, they are not truly your friends. as you grow up you will learn that true friendship cant be changed by a new girl in class. and as far s the boyfriend thing, start flirting with him again and bring up old memories of you guys together and see if he still has feelings for you.
2007-05-04 11:36:16 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he's your ex there's nothing you can do about it. I know that sticks but that's the way things go. You can't make him feel the same for you as you feel for him.
And besides just because people flirt with each other doesn't mean they'll end up together either.
I had a guy friend who flirted with all the girls he knew. He said "It makes the girl feel good and I feel good in return for making some one feel special!" He had a great relationship that ended up in a happy marriage, and he still flirts!
Have you tried to talk to the new girl? Or are you just too jealous to look past that and try and befriend her yourself?
Maybe people want to be her friend because she's a nice person, not just because she's pretty!
And if they only want to be her friend because she's pretty, then do you really want them for friends? Sounds like they're all pretty shallow and petty.
2007-05-04 11:58:18 · answer #2 · answered by GambitGrrl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Now remember you did say EX-BOYFRIEND! He's on the market now - you have no claims. This girl is the newbie and everybody is interested in the new kid in town. Why don't you just join the club and get to know her as well. You might even like her! It's not her fault that others are interested in her. Don't be so threatened. If anything that will push people away from you because you would seem to be possessive of others. Nobody likes that. Besides - she'll become "old-news" before your know it.
2007-05-04 11:40:11 · answer #3 · answered by cleesurrey 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
allright, i know how to deal with this sort of thing, you have to step up your badassedness, you stand true to yourself and you will always win, now i don't know your age but you sound like high school, and the coolsest kids in high school are usually lame, so they're beatable, now if they are being lame, chances are you found some superficial friends, so be stronger, in yourself, man, cause you don't need anybody to be cool, and when you figuire out that nobody has a clue, well then you know what's cool for you, and they'll see it or they'll miss out, i will say this get a look that works for you, that goes miles in high school and life, but mostly stand true to you, if this new girl is winning at life, it's your duty to step your game up, stay alert and opportunity will arise to regain your status, but do not change your true self i know this all sounds like a riddle i wish i could be more specific,
2007-05-04 11:53:06 · answer #4 · answered by rockabillly motha****** 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is tough. Ok remember he is your ex, im guessing he left you since there are still feelings. As much as i know you will hate it, join them, she may be the best thing since sliced bread. And showing sour feelings may be driving your friends toward her. Join your buddies and meet the girl, you may turn out to be best friends. About the boy. Boys come and go, try to flirt, but dont get your hopes down if things still dont work. Best wishes!
2007-05-04 11:38:21 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im sorry to tell you this but if she's stealing your friends then they arent your friends. You can't steal friends. It's not her fault she attracts such fake people. As for that boy think of it like this one day you're going to go to college, and when you go to college you're going to meet soooo many cute and educated MEN with things going for themselves. You won't be thinking about him then. If he's flirting forget him he's just as fake as those other people. Girl who, do you. Get you some real friends and stop following that fake crowd.
2007-05-04 11:38:49 · answer #6 · answered by redbone_dime 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing get to now her and until you now her don't judge her you might find she is cool and about your bf problems it might just be time to move on if you keep feelings for him you might not see that someone else could like you.One last thing she may be pretty but i am sure you have good points to and if they are your friends they always will be.
2007-05-04 11:37:58 · answer #7 · answered by i think i no 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be her friend asnd be cool---chill, this is how it always go for the new girl....and then she'll start to get old, give it time---but theres no reason why you should be her enemy...get to know her, you may like each other and you may even grow to be best friends. I should know, this has happened to me before
2007-05-04 11:37:00 · answer #8 · answered by Ameille N 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ahaa i guess u still have something more than a "little" for ur exbf..well dunt get mad at her u just carry on ur things and ignore her .. if she's stealing ur friends u can't help it caz it's up to thm isn't it??
2007-05-04 11:39:35 · answer #9 · answered by l3al3y GiRL 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be her friend... and be her friend for reals. she is probably nice... seems like you have alot in common already. you like the same people and you like the same kinds of friends. so get to know her.
then she won't want to steal your ex, because friends don't do that to each other.
;-)
2007-05-04 11:37:29 · answer #10 · answered by SweetElf 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋